Even as the Bus Rolls Over Me, I'll Still Vote For Him

I'm not the sharpest tool in the shed -- hell, I'm probably not even in the top 50%.  That's why I found it so funny earlier in the campaign when I'd go to these web sites that were designed to help me choose my candidate.  According to the way these sites worked, my best choice president would be the person who agreed with me the most -- like I have a clue!  

I don't believe that I always know what is best.  A lot of my political positions are based on my feelings and incomplete information.  For example, I certainly don't know the ins-and-outs of environmental policies and their associated fiscal and public health implications, but I do know I like the idea of wilderness areas and abundant wildlife and I really don't like gigantic shopping malls and chemicals in my food.

I'm a blue-collar working stiff who's barely managed to put a kid through college, lost a couple of jobs to outsourcing, had two strokes and doesn't have very good health care.
I'm gay, too.

Anyway, so I'm supposed to be all worried about Obama throwing me under the bus, I guess.

You know, if that's what it takes to get him elected. . . well, I'm okay with it.

He wasn't my first choice.  So it goes.  My guy (gal) usually loses anyway.  I don't expect to trust or believe in a candidate like people "trust" or "believe in" a savior . . . they're just people.      I do think Obama is a whole lot smarter than I am. So, even though I'd like to think he could get elected without making me into roadkill, I'm don't claim to be smart enough to really know if it would/will make the crucial difference.  

For me, though, it comes down to perspective.  There's a lot more at stake than gay rights -- and . . . when it comes right down to it . . . I think some of those things are more important than gay rights.  Some are immediate things like health care and jobs and education.  Some are more long range like global warming and endless war.  

But. It hurts.  It does.
I know my life would have different -- and much better -- if marrying another man had been a viable option when I was growing up.  I might have had the courage to come out before I was in my 30's . . .

water under the bridge.  I'm so far past being angry and so far away from moral outrage anymore . . . I mean, after Iraq and Abu Ghraib, I'm supposed to get all bent out of shape because One More Homophobe Gets Our Candidate's Support?

I understand some people do get all bent out of shape.  Maybe they are right . . . I'm quite prepared to admit I'm wrong (in fact, that's generally the right assumption when it comes to my decisions and my thinking) . . . but, I can't stomach the alternative.  I can't have more naked men with electrodes attached their balls in my name . . . no matter what it "costs" me.

I don't want young men to have to go through what I did.  I want them to have the chance to love and be loved just like "normal" folks . . . but . . . if I've got to choose . . .

I don't know why or even if I'll have to choose.

But I'm going to choose what I think is best for most of the people.  If that bus can't get to Washington, if we can't make things even a tiny bit better, without driving over me . . . well, so be it.  I can deal.



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Re: Even as the Bus Rolls Over Me, I'll Still Vote (2.00 / 2)

good diary - rec'd.


by colebiancardi on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 01:08:03 PM EST

Re: Even as the Bus Rolls Over Me, I'll Still Vote (2.00 / 1)

In the american voter pysche---There is a difference between

a single policy voter ( e.g will not vote if he/she is pro or anti gay, depending on your party of choice)

single fundamental policy voter( e.g will not vote if he/she is not pro secruity first or on the flip he/she is constitutional rights over secruity candidate )

/ and... 'shoot the otherside is evil I'm only for my party regardless voter'.

To each his own...


Rise / Repeat / But for god's sake don't spin!
by aliveandkickin on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 01:16:04 PM EST
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Re: Even as the Bus Rolls Over Me, I'll Still Vote (2.00 / 1)

the first one should have been--- single policy ' lifestyle' voter


Rise / Repeat / But for god's sake don't spin!
by aliveandkickin on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 01:17:28 PM EST
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Re: Even as the Bus Rolls Over Me, I'll Still Vote (2.00 / 4)

Just so you know -- being gay is about having a LIFE not a lifestyle.


Full Equality Now!
by cuppajoe on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 04:33:29 PM EST
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Re: Even as the Bus Rolls Over Me, I'll Still Vote (2.00 / 2)

This diary is written as if Obama doesn't support gay rights.  That's not true, particularly if you compare him to the other party's nominee.


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by politicsmatters on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 01:12:39 PM EST

Obama's open letter to the gay community (2.00 / 3)

"    I'm running for President to build an America that lives up to our founding promise of equality for all - a promise that extends to our gay brothers and sisters. It's wrong to have millions of Americans living as second-class citizens in this nation. And I ask for your support in this election so that together we can bring about real change for all LGBT Americans. Equality is a moral imperative. That's why throughout my career, I have fought to eliminate discrimination against LGBTAmericans. In Illinois, I co-sponsored a fully inclusive bill that prohibited discrimination on the basis of both sexual orientation and gender identity, extending protection to the workplace, housing, and places of public accommodation.

   In the U.S. Senate, I have co-sponsored bills that would equalize tax treatment for same-sex couples and provide benefits to domestic partners of federal employees. And as president, I will place the weight of my administration behind the enactment of the Matthew Shepard Act to outlaw hate crimes and a fully inclusive Employment Non-Discrimination Act to outlaw workplace discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation and gender identity. As your President, I will use the bully pulpit to urge states to treat same-sex couples with full equality in their family and adoption laws. I personally believe that civil unions represent the best way to secure that equal treatment. But I also believe that the federal government should not stand in the way of states that want to decide on their own how best to pursue equality for gay and lesbian couples -- whether that means a domestic partnership, a civil union, or a civil marriage.

   Unlike Senator Clinton, I support the complete repeal of the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) - a position I have held since before arriving in the U.S. Senate. While some say we should repeal only part of the law, I believe we should get rid of that statute altogether. Federal law should not discriminate in any way against gay and lesbian couples, which is precisely what DOMA does. I have also called for us to repeal Don't Ask, Don't Tell, and I have worked to improve the Uniting American Families Act so we can afford same-sex couples the same rights and obligations as married couples in our immigration system. The next president must also address the HIV/AIDS epidemic. When it comes to prevention, we do not have to choose between values and science. While abstinence education should be part of any strategy, we also need to use common sense. We should have age-appropriate sex education that includes information about contraception. We should pass the JUSTICE Act to combat infection within our prison population. And we should lift the federal ban on needle exchange, which could dramatically reduce rates of infection among drug users. In addition, local governments can protect public health by distributing contraceptives.

   We also need a president who's willing to confront the stigma - too often tied to homophobia - that continues to surround HIV/AIDS. I confronted this stigma directly in a speech to evangelicals at Rick Warren's Saddleback Church, and will continue to speak out as president. That is where I stand on the major issues of the day. But having the right positions on the issues is only half the battle. The other half is to win broad support for those positions. And winning broad support will require stepping outside our comfort zone. If we want to repeal DOMA, repeal Don't Ask, Don't Tell, and implement fully inclusive laws outlawing hate crimes and discrimination in the workplace, we need to bring the message of LGBT equality to skeptical audiences as well as friendly ones - and that's what I've done throughout my career. I brought this message of inclusiveness to all of America in my keynote address at the 2004 Democratic convention.

   I talked about the need to fight homophobia when I announced my candidacy for President, and I have been talking about LGBT equality to a number of groups during this campaign - from local LGBT activists to rural farmers to parishioners at Ebenezer Baptist Church in Atlanta, where Dr. Martin Luther King once preached. Just as important, I have been listening to what all Americans have to say. I will never compromise on my commitment to equal rights for all LGBTAmericans. But neither will I close my ears to the voices of those who still need to be convinced. That is the work we must do to move forward together. It is difficult. It is challenging. And it is necessary. Americans are yearning for leadership that can empower us to reach for what we know is possible. I believe that we can achieve the goal of full equality for the millions of LGBT people in this country. To do that, we need leadership that can appeal to the best parts of the human spirit. Join with me, and I will provide that leadership. Together, we will achieve real equality for all Americans, gay and straight alike."
http://andrewsullivan.theatlantic.com/th e_daily_dish/2008/02/obamas-open-let.htm l


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by politicsmatters on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 01:31:52 PM EST
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Re: Obama's open letter to the gay community (2.00 / 3)

You keep running that letter (I've seen you post it before) as if it means something.

It's campaign hype like all his other hype.

I have yet to see him do something concrete about gay/lesbian rights. He has said he's uncomnfortable with gay people, he won't appear in local gay papers, he won't march in gay pride marches, he just mouths words.

So, I'm waiting for some action. That letter is nice but not enough.


Full Equality Now!
by cuppajoe on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 04:32:59 PM EST
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Re: Obama's open letter to the gay community (none / 0)

Not true.


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by politicsmatters on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 04:48:16 PM EST
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Re: Obama's open letter to the gay community (none / 0)

Sayiong "not true" doesn't make it not true.


Full Equality Now!
by cuppajoe on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 09:26:03 PM EST
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Re: Obama's open letter to the gay community (none / 0)

And saying someone said something without evidence doesn't make it true either.

(I saw you say Dorothy Hamill was two midgets standing on each other's shoulders. It was on some morning show.)


by jere7my on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 10:48:14 PM EST
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Re: Obama's open letter to the gay community (none / 0)

Yes, but the Candidate forum was real. Your Dorothy Hamill example is not correct, just a derisive jab to try and make the truth go away.

The Candidate Forum was the Logo Forum in Los Angeles in August 2007, you can google it, if you like.

And no, Dorothy Hamill wasn't there, neither was your UnPC use of the pejorative term for little people.


Full Equality Now!
by cuppajoe on Mon Jun 23, 2008 at 12:22:23 AM EST
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Google is your friend (none / 0)

Dude, I've already established that it is John Edwards you're thinking of, John Edwards who was accused of saying he was uncomfortable around "those people". Melissa Etheridge ribbed him about it -- at the selfsame forum you just pointed me to.

Here's a NYTimes article about the Logo forum:

http://www.nytimes.com/cq/2007/08/10/cq_ 3261.html

Here's a liveblog of the event:

http://www.nysun.com/blogs/latest-politi cs/2007/08/the-gay-debate-1.html

Note the Etheridge/Edwards exchange:

9:26: Melissa Etheridge asks about reports that he's said he's uncomfortable around gay people. "Are you OK right now?" she asks. God line. Edwards: "I'm perfectly comfortable." Edwards denies that he ever said the quote in question.

No mention about Obama being uncomfortable around anyone.

Couldja please admit you were wrong, misremembering, or flat-out lying about Obama saying he was uncomfortable around gays? If not, you've just outed yourself as a troll.


by jere7my on Mon Jun 23, 2008 at 01:28:45 AM EST
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Re: Google is your friend (none / 0)

I could be wrong but I'll check to see if I can find a transcript.

And pardon me, but I've been a lifelong Democrat and a gay activist for quite some time.

So don't throw around the troll shit as if that would make me quake. Get a grip.


Full Equality Now!
by cuppajoe on Mon Jun 23, 2008 at 02:01:13 AM EST
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Re: Google is your friend (none / 0)

Thanks for admitting your error; that was very gracious (mostly ;) ). I retract the troll comment, and apologize for the suggestion.

Here's the transcript:

http://my.barackobama.com/page/community /post/danielleclarke/CJnX

This neatly illustrates how tricky memory is (that's not a slam -- it plays tricks on us all), and the importance of getting direct quotes when you're reporting something someone said. As a lifelong gay activist, I hope you judge our candidate on stuff he actually says and does, not what you sortakinda remember.


by jere7my on Mon Jun 23, 2008 at 02:24:08 AM EST
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Re: Google is your friend (none / 0)

My admission of possibly misremembering was as gracious as your responses to me have been -- you be kind, I'll be kind. I have nothing against you -- it was your tone that set me off.

I'll read the transcript from another source, but thanks for the time you took to get that.

As a Librarian, journalist, and writer, I know very well the importance of accuracy in quoting -- something a lot of people ought to remember, including candidates and politicians.

You brought up another point when you lambasted me earlier -- when I said "I'll bet" that BO had spoken to other ethnic local papers whereas he refuses to sit down with local gay papers. You wanted proof.

Well, I know for a fact -- just confirmed this morning -- that BO sat down with a reporter friend of mine who works for the Tribune (a local AA paper with a circulation even smaller than the Philadelphia Gay News). He gave them a lengthy interview. That fact makes me certain he has done this in other cities for other local ethnic papers -- I'm in the process of gathering that information.

But he refuses to do the same for local gay papers. He did give an interview to the Advocate but that is not exactly the same as going local.

As a gay activist for many years here and as one who has marched in Gay Pride marches before they became "parades", I know well the importance of judging someone on what they do.

I have not seen BO march in a gay pride parade -- I have seen Clinton and other big named politicians do that.

I have not seen BO nor his major surrogates come to the gay community, meet us on our turf, in our bars and clubs, and ask directly for our support. I have seen Chelsea Clinton and Bill Clinton here and I know that Hillary has met directly with our community all around the country. And other candidates have done the same.

Sending out letters and making fleeting comments is nice but not enough.

I have worked with politicians who have been more than supportive. Mayor Goode, our first AA mayor, took the time to sit down with me and do an interview for our local paper and for the Advocate (for which I worked as a correspondent at the time).

Mayor Street, our second AA mayor, supported gay rights as a councilman, then changed his tune for a while once he got religion, then changed back after many meetings with our community leaders. I've met with him a number of times.

Our Current Mayor Nutter, yet another AA politician, is a real champion for gay/lesbian rights and equality. He is open and willing to put himself out there.

When I see similar committment from BO, maybe I'll get the idea that he has our interests at heart. Until then, I remain suspicious.

And in addition to knowing the importance of quotes and sources, I also know that it is not a sin to look critically at someone/something. It's healthy and important to approach candidates with an open mind and to see the flaws or gaps in their self presentations. If you can still accept them "warts and all" as they say, then you have at least gone that extra mile and satisfied yourself.

I don't accept much, if anything, unquestioningly. If that qualifies someone as a troll in your book, then that's jus the way you see the world, I guess.

The important thing to remember is that we're on the same side on most issues and we need to respect each other's concerns and not whip one another over them.


Full Equality Now!
by cuppajoe on Mon Jun 23, 2008 at 11:29:09 AM EST
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Re: Google is your friend (none / 0)

I appreciate you doing the research. I might respond that it makes more sense for a black man to do interviews with small AA newspapers than for other minority newspapers, just as more prominent gay folks probably do interviews for gay newspapers than AA newspapers.

And I already apologized for suggesting you might be a troll. It had nothing to do with holding a dissenting view, and everything to do with claiming to have heard something nasty and being unable to provide any evidence. If you just misremembered, I have no reason to accuse you of trolling.


by jere7my on Mon Jun 23, 2008 at 12:14:52 PM EST
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Re: Google is your friend (none / 0)

Thanks for your apology. I appreciate it.

I kind've thought you might say it made sense for Obama to talk with AA papers but to me it doesn't:
a) he said he was the post racial candidate -- so for me that would mean he talks to mainstream media only, or ALL types of local media (Gay, Latino, AA, etc.) I would expect a gay/lesbian candidate to try and seek out votes in all communities, especially those where the connection seems tenuous.

b) his spokesperson at the time of the flap said that BO was not talking to local gay papers because talking to them did not represent a "postmodern approach" whatever that means! That is one thing that made me angry because I can smell bullshit from a long way off. (Link to that article: http://www.politico.com/news/stories/040 8/9503.html

So, I remain skeptical and wait for more concrete actions.

And, lest you think this is my only issue (it's certainly one that is extremely close to me; but it is also a bellweather issue, in a sense. If a candidate is good on this, then most often she/he is good on lots of other things I care about) I have other issues which are important and over which I am still waiting to be convinced.

Thanks for your willingness to listen. I hope we can keep the dialog going. (Though this thread is not exactly on the front burner any longer!)


Full Equality Now!
by cuppajoe on Mon Jun 23, 2008 at 05:54:30 PM EST
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Re: Google is your friend (none / 0)

Yeah, I don't know what "postmodern" means there, either.

According to the article I linked to elsewhere in the thread, Obama's apparently establishing a presence at 60 pride events across the country, and just hired a bunch of LGBT staffers for the general election.  So hopefully he's going to be paying more attention.

And kudos for turning a potential flame war into a friendly chat. I was a Philly boy in the 90s -- we probably have friends in common, or at least friends of friends. :)


by jere7my on Mon Jun 23, 2008 at 11:25:12 PM EST
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Re: Obama's open letter to the gay community (none / 0)

Could I get a link, or even a direct quote, on the "uncomnfortable with gay people" line? Given that his deputy campaign manager is gay, that seems kinda unlikely to me.


by jere7my on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 08:32:58 PM EST
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Re: Obama's open letter to the gay community (none / 0)

He said it at a forum some of the original candidates did which was sponsored by a gay rights group.

I saw it when it was on TV months ago -- I saw him say those words.

Whether or not there's a link to it, I don't know.

And just because some low level deputy is on the staff doesn't mean he's comfortable with it all --lots of people are on lots of staffs. For example, Santorum's main Senatorial assistant was a gay black man -- neither group was Sanrorum comfortable with. Except to use them.

So, that doesn't wash.

His gay deputy is the one who mouthed the words that Obama wouldn't give interviews to local gay papers. Because he just doesn't do that, the assistant said. (I know because it was all about an interview that he refused to do here in Philly.) But I'll bet he does interviews with other local ethnic groups.

So, he's got a long way to go before I feel comfortable with him on gay/lesbian issues.


Full Equality Now!
by cuppajoe on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 09:25:08 PM EST
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Re: Obama's open letter to the gay community (none / 0)

You saw him say those words? Which words? "I'm uncomfortable with gay people"? Those words exactly? Until you can provide a direct quote, I'm not going to say anything one way or the other about his words. It is way too easy to subsitute one similar word for another when paraphrasing, even when well-intentioned, and completely change the meaning.

"Deputy campaign manager" is not a low-level position. Hildebrand is someone who works closely with Obama on a day-to-day basis.

And "I'll bet he does" is not an argument. Find evidence. Link to it, as I did. If you can't demonstrate a history of giving interviews to low-circulation special-interest newspapers, but not to gay papers, you can't demonstrate bias.

Right now, you're accusing a powerful ally of homophobia with no evidence. Zero. He's been endorsed by people who aren't down with the pink; okay, bummer. So has Clinton. Neither of them are responsible for their endorsers, unless they're on the payroll.

So find some evidence, or stop making accusations. Fair enough?


by jere7my on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 10:46:50 PM EST
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*rolls eyes* (2.00 / 1)

Oh, for Pete's sake. It was Edwards. John Edwards was accused of saying he was uncomfortable around gay people. Not Obama.  E.g.:

'Presidential hopeful Senator John Edwards has been quoted in a new book as saying of gays that he's "not comfortable around those people."'

http://www.edgeboston.com/index.php?ch=n ews&sc=glbt&sc2=news&sc3=&am p;id=20610

And Google [edwards uncomfortable "gay people"] for plenty more discussion. (Googling [obama uncomfortable "gay people"] returns...nothing about any such quote.) For what it's worth, Edwards denies saying it.

If Obama had said that, on TV, there'd be eight zillion Google hits about it, as there are for Edwards. I'd appreciate a retraction. Thanks!


by jere7my on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 11:57:17 PM EST
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Re: Obama's open letter to the gay community (2.00 / 1)

And then you refer to Andrew Sullivan!? The most slimey, self-hating homosexual that ever walked the earth.

Please, quoting him/referring to him is beneath contempt.


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by cuppajoe on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 04:34:55 PM EST
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Re: Obama's open letter to the gay community (none / 0)

I'm not quoting Sullivan. That's Obama. Yes, Sully posted the letter, but so did lots of other sites.


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by politicsmatters on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 04:47:44 PM EST
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Re: Even as the Bus Rolls Over Me, I'll Still Vote (2.00 / 1)

Indeed. He supports a full repeal of DADT and DOMA ("I support the full and unqualified repeal of the federal Defense of Marriage Act. While some say we should repeal only part of the law, I believe we should get rid of that statute altogether. Federal law should not discriminate in any way against gay and lesbian couples"), and is in favor of federally recognized civil unions. The one thing he's not for is federal support of gay marriage, but then nobody on our side except Kucinich and Gravel went that far.

Obama's actually great on gay issues; I can only assume that people think he isn't because of leftover primary memes, and because people continue to think he endorses every view of everyone he engages with (like McClurkin).


by jere7my on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 01:35:14 PM EST
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Re: Even as the Bus Rolls Over Me, I'll Still Vote (2.00 / 2)

Over and over again, gays have heard this routine from Democrats running for office. And over and over again, we have been dumped once the candidate was elected. All of a sudden they discover 'religious' reasons not to support our agenda. Chicago politicians have been particularly prone to this. Especially, AA Chicago politicians, with the honorable exception of Harold Washington. The candidate would be featured in our papers. He would appear at our community events. He would get gay money for his run. Then he would refuse to vote for our bills.

So, all I can look at are the people in the candidate's life. If s/he is surrounded by out gay staffers and friends of over 20 years, like Hillary, then I can vote with confidence. If s/he is surrounded by raging homophobes, like McClurkin, Caldwell, Meeks, Nunn etc., then I don't vote for them.

Just a whiff of homophobia and I am out of there.


by DaleA on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 02:32:53 PM EST
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Re: Even as the Bus Rolls Over Me, I'll Still Vote (2.00 / 2)

Guilt by association doesn't play with me; I know too many people who I disagree with vehemently who I'm still proud to call my friend. (I even know some Republicans!)

But if the candidates are to be judged by the company they keep, look at Rev. Wright, who (and I sound like a broken record, I know) started one of the first AIDS ministries in Chicago, and who started a singles night for his GLBT parishoners, against the vocal protests of his more conservative flock.  Then look at Dick Cheney, who has a closer relationship to a lesbian than Senator Clinton has to anybody outside her family. Who would you trust on gay issues?

There's a racial component here, too. Someone who devotes his professional life to community organizing in a predominantly black urban area is, frankly, going to have to work alongside some people who aren't comfortable with homosexuality, and probably accept their endorsements, and probably seek their advice, and probably become friends with some of them. If you want to work for change in one area, you sometimes have to work alongside people you disagree with in another. Obama has worked to change that attitude when he's found it, in front of hostile audiences and in his day-to-day work, and he's spoken clearly and firmly about his positions on gay issues. It's not something that's going to change overnight--but I'll betcha that putting a pro-GLBT black man in the White House for eight years will sure change a lot of attitudes as the next generation is growing up.

Have you read this yet?

http://www.sovo.com/2008/6-13/news/natio nal/8675.cfm

Melissa Etheridge is on board -- you could be too! ;)

You also might want to look at that list of names you posted and see which of them are actually connected to Obama and which are linked to him via rumor. I don't think Obama or his campaign has actually said anything about Nunn, for instance ('"It's premature for us to have any comment on the vice presidential issue," said Ben LaBolt, a spokesperson for the Obama campaign.'), and Meeks initially endorsed Clinton.


by jere7my on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 03:22:26 PM EST
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Re: Even as the Bus Rolls Over Me, I'll Still Vote (none / 0)

Oh, and Caldwell? All he did was endorse Obama. Like Harold Mayberry endorsed Clinton. Frankly, I think the endorsement-gotcha game is a game the Right wins.


by jere7my on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 03:39:44 PM EST
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Re: Even as the Bus Rolls Over Me, I'll Still Vote (none / 0)

He has plenty of gay staffers.


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by politicsmatters on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 03:37:34 PM EST
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Re: Even as the Bus Rolls Over Me, I'll Still Vote (2.00 / 1)

Then where have they been? In each crisis, they should have been sent out to speak to the GLBT community. The fact that they were not tells me there really arn't any.


by DaleA on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 04:03:21 PM EST
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Re: Even as the Bus Rolls Over Me, I'll Still Vote (none / 0)

Did you read the article I linked to? Steve Hildebrand, his deputy campaign manager, is gay. As is Tobias Wolff, chair of his LGBT Policy Group. And they've just hired a half-dozen more gay staffers, now that the primary is over.

http://www.sovo.com/2008/6-13/news/natio nal/8675.cfm

Also:

http://www.queerty.com/obamas-gay-backer s-20080221/


by jere7my on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 04:27:24 PM EST
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There are no gigantic shopping malls in yer food. (2.00 / 2)

Can see how you'd be upset if there were, so hope that settles ya down.


We can no longer afford to worship the god of hate or bow before the altar of retaliation. Martin Luther King Jr.
by fairleft on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 01:13:51 PM EST

Re: There are no gigantic shopping malls (2.00 / 1)

Be nice, or else....!  ;)


Purity! Or else!
by ChitownDenny on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 01:19:53 PM EST
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Re: There are no gigantic shopping malls in yer fo (2.00 / 4)

True, it's a real bummer . . . but the parking lots are crunchy . . .

sorry about the poor writing . . .


"If you don't care about everybody, you don't care about anybody." --Ethan Mordden
by prodigal on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 01:20:23 PM EST
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Re: There are no gigantic shopping malls in yer fo (2.00 / 1)

LOL!  


Purity! Or else!
by ChitownDenny on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 01:21:32 PM EST
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Re: There are no gigantic shopping malls in yer fo (2.00 / 1)

gay people don't have strokes


by stevens7139 on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 02:01:55 PM EST
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If a bus rolled over you (2.00 / 1)

you'd require immediate hospitalization and possible surgery.

(Just doing my part to retire a tired metaphor.)

Beyond that, perspective is a good thing to have, and you do seem to have it.


"This victory alone is not the change we seek -- it is only the chance for us to make that change." -- Nov. 4, 2008
by BobzCat on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 01:25:37 PM EST

Re: If a bus rolled over you (2.00 / 1)

nah, your head would have popped  off.

Even if you put it right on ice the hospital wouldn't take your parts.

But seriously, the busses people keep getting thrown under must be a custom design.

Do the front windows open?  Are there platforms along the side for pushing people from?

I say-- just don't ride weird busses.


by wrb on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 01:45:40 PM EST
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Re: Even as the Bus Rolls Over Me, I'll Still V (none / 0)

Can you explain where you feel Obama is deficient on gay rights? Specific policies, please.


by authority song on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 01:42:18 PM EST

Re: Even as the Bus Rolls (2.00 / 1)

ahem, this is like a will rogers, ah shucks, but I like how it raises the trade-offs subject. With this candidate I can get two from column A and one from column B and from the other one I can get two from Column B and one from A. as for gay rights, you can bet your bottom dollar Obama will be much better than mcsame.


by linfar on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 01:57:11 PM EST

Re: Even as the Bus Rolls (2.00 / 3)

Of course Obama will be better on gay rights than McCain.  A bear claw would be better than McCain on gay rights (and I'm not talking about Sully's hand, either).

If Nunn is on the 'list', however, some of us do have reason to wonder what the heck is going on.  I think that's all this is, except for the "I'll vote for him even if it undermines my own interests" meme.  I don't buy that, wouldn't for ANY candidate.

But honestly, I think this is much navel gazing about nothing.  I do wish the diarist hadn't put in the part about electrodes.  Folks at Folsom kinda like that.  ;-)


Hell's bells, even the GOP didn't have to crucify Eisenhower's record in order to make Reagan their 'saint'. We can have two great ones, you know?
by emsprater on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 02:29:19 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Even as the Bus Rolls Over Me, I'll Still Vote (2.00 / 2)

What a great friggin' diary!  One of the best I've ever read!  Rec'd and recommended!

If you're not afraid of Daily Kos, please post the diary over there... and anywhere else you can!!


"This was never part of our arrangement, Specter" "I am altering the deal! Pray I don't alter it any further!" "This deal keeps getting worse all the time!"
by LordMike on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 03:00:37 PM EST

at Kos (2.00 / 1)

Okay,  I did.
I'm scared . . . but I don't have to read the comments, after all.
"If you don't care about everybody, you don't care about anybody." --Ethan Mordden
by prodigal on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 03:23:40 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Like Jon Stewart said: (2.00 / 1)

"I want a president who is smarter than me!!".

Unfortunately, I am very smart.  Tried denying it for a long time (amazing how many problems it doesn't solve, and how many others it causes), but that didn't help.  Made my teachers nervous, pissed off the other kids, freaked out the grownups.  Yea.

And I don't know what the right thing to do most of the time is, either.  I just have very well evolved incorrect ideas much of the time.

Take this FISA thing.  This is right down my alley, I've worked on securing information and all that implies for eons, hate intrusive oversight, know all I want to about the folks who want to (for example) hack airport lighting systems to make aircraft do funny things like running into eachother, read legaleze like comic strips.  Most of my colleagues are dead-set against it (but many of them are also so paranoid they won't use online banking...), and nearly everyone on my current political side foams at the mouth about it.

Meanwhile the guy with all the legal education and the good handle on the ins and outs of both the specifics of this law and the moment-by-moment political landscape - the guy that I support - has said that the right thing to do atm is to support it with certain caveats.

I dunno.  Certainly I can think of scenarios where that makes sense, but just like everyone else more than six inches from the situation I am not aware of all the details so all I can do is guess.

It would be nice to hold fast-and-strict beliefs about things like this.  For that matter, about any things at all.  But I have done that often enough in the past only to be proven overwhelmingly wrong later on.  So against the backdrop of consuming and analyzing volumes of information, I trust my gut at the end of the day.

recced.

-chris


Motley Moose: Progress Through Politics
by chrisblask on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 03:02:58 PM EST

Don't worry about that bus (none / 0)

I'm confident that by Obama's first term, we'll be better off than before.  Like all the major Democrats, he stops short at Federal recognition of gay marriage, but overall he's on our side.  As states like MA and CA continue to be at the forefront of that fight, and as Americans (and in particular younger ones) continue to evolve in their views, I'm optimistic that even on this issue, Democrats like Hillary and Obama will feel comfortable "coming out" as pro-gay marriage.  Support Obama.  He's going to be good to us.


Stop H8
by mikeinsf on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 03:26:36 PM EST

This... (2.00 / 1)

...is one of the wisest, most honest diaries I've seen on MYDD for quite some time.

Highlt rec'd.


by Mystylplx on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 03:27:11 PM EST

Obama is never for Gays.......yet!!! (2.00 / 4)

Obama is never with us and will never be one of us till he means it. Giving speeches or written statements about how he embraces us doesn't count when he does the exact same thing to the conservatives voters who have issues with us. There is a reason why gays voted for Hillary 4 to 1 in comparison to Obama. And not to say that we are more educated with issues.

The Clintons has been going to gay establishments throughout this primary to rally our support and even in her concession acknowledge us. She is for us and will always be one of us. As for Obama, just blank statements and only when he forced him to response to our issues. It's sad to see that gays who has always been supporting the democratic party got an actual candidate who is progressive enough to side with us consistently got thrown out of the bus. Now i'm really curious to see how gays vote in the general considering that around 1/4 of Hillary's staffers are gay.

Just on gay positions alone, Obama and Mc Cain have the same policies for us. Thankfully that we have a lot more democrat officials who are for us than the republicans. So to be honest, i haven't yet embrace Obama and thus have not decided to vote for him yet. There is no change and hope if he does not embrace our community positively and i urged all gays to unite and pressure Obama to support candidates who are for us and embrace our rights and policies. Usually candidates move to the left during the primaries and shift back to the right during the general. Obama is currently being no different and since he did not go left enough to be for us, i wouldn't expect him to embrace us this fall. All the change and hope is for nothing if he does not act what he preaches. I hope that our community do not blindly endorse him till he decides to be for us. He can start so by either garnering our support in our establishments or walk with us during pride weekend, just like what Hillary has done. Else it will just be meaningless and all rhetoric.


by stevent on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 04:21:24 PM EST

Re: Obama is never for Gays.......yet!!! (none / 0)

How about comparing Obama to his electoral opponent, a certain Senator McCain?


We care about politics because we know politics matters for people's lives and opportunities.
by politicsmatters on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 04:50:21 PM EST
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Re: Obama is never for Gays.......yet!!! (2.00 / 1)

John McCain flipflop 10 times in 2 weeks. What is there to compare? As for Obama, he is our nominee, and he should be held to our progressive standard. Hoping for him to change is not the reason why he should be our nominee. And that is why it is important for us to ensure that he remains a progressive or at least become a progressive. Lately he is not doing so. Being a democrat does not make you a progressive automatically. Look at Congress.

A democrat in the southern states is no different than a republican in a liberal state. This goes vice versa too. Therefore it's all about the policies that you are willing to stand for, but currently Obama does not embrace those policies and you expect us to vote for him blindly and not held him accountable at all? This mentality is no different from those who choose to elect Bush in 2000. We are democrats and we are different from the Republicans. We expect our candidates to be for us and to be held accountable.


by stevent on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 05:22:16 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Obama is never for Gays.......yet!!! (none / 0)

I think one of your statements is just a little simplistic:

"A democrat in the southern states is no different than a republican in a liberal state"

Does that mean you'd prefer David Pryor over Olympia Snowe?

Better think about that one, ace.


by BJJ Fighter on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 10:03:09 PM EST
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Ridiculous (2.00 / 1)

If you don't recall, the Clintons imposed DADT and DOMA themselves.  They're first class panderers to be sure, and Obama's disinclination to do a lot of special interest events when he could be doing general public events that all people, including gays, are more than welcome to come to, should give you more hope for a normalized culture than anything else.

I was very pleased with Hillary Clinton's concession speech because she made a point of taking Obama's tack on including discussion of gays in a general setting, which she usually didn't do.  It was a classy move and good for unity.

Obama and McCain are not on the same level when it comes to gays.  Obama wants every American to have the same rights.  McCain wants to become President and will dance to the Republcian party's anti-gay tune to do it.


You can't stop the signal.

President "That One"

by Dracomicron on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 07:40:48 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Cart before the horse. (none / 0)

As the diarist points out, there are some pressing matters facing the nation, and the GE is not going to be a slam dunk.

Demanding that Obama participate in a pride weekend to match the pandering that went on during the primaries is a tad disingenuous. If you'd like input into his campaign, start with his LGBT policy group, and effect any change you'd like to see from the inside.

Legislation like DOMA would not have materialized had not there been considerable support for it. Only true leadership from the bully pulpit can make inroads into this kind of prejudiced mindset, but knee-capping the effort to re-take the WH by imposing outlandish conditions on your support isn't the best way to go about it.


Avoid the word "socialism" when conversing with me, and I'll avoid the term "ignoramus" when responding to you.
by Sumo Vita on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 09:59:28 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Even as the Bus Rolls Over Me (none / 0)

Well written and wise;I identify with your world view. I think Bill Clinton was the first time I voted for a winner in a presidential election.  For g-d's sake I've voted for Gus Hall on more than one occasion. Political candidates are like parents, children and boyfriends they are all bound to disappoint. Our job is to(atleast with politians) is to push them to do the right thing.


Ida B. "We have always known that heedless self-interest was bad morals; we know now that it is bad economics"--F.D.R.
by Ida B on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 04:43:12 PM EST

Re: Even as the Bus Rolls Over Me, I'll Still Vote (none / 0)

I hate to tell you but if the most important issue to you is the torture issue then the one person that you can count on NOT to do that in your name any more is John McCain. After all he was tortured when he spent 5 years in a Vietnamese prison camp. With Obama I see no evidence he has ever stood on principle (campaign finance, his church of 20 years,his mentor rev Wright,  FISA and giving telecoms immunity, bringing the troops home from Iraq ie timetable etc)  


by Bornagaindem on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 05:01:01 PM EST

While it is counterintuitive (2.00 / 1)

Boston Globe

McCain drops the torture ball
By Derrick. Z. Jackson
February 16, 2008

JOHN MCCAIN this week had a choice between his principles and propping up a failed president. He chose the latter The Senate joined the House in passing an intelligence bill that would ban the CIA from using waterboarding as an interrogation tactic. The CIA would have to abide by the Army Field Manual, which also prohibits beatings, electric or temperature shocks, forced nudity, mock executions, and the use of dogs.

http://www.boston.com/news/nation/articl es/2008/02/16/mccain_drops_the_torture_b all/


Ida B. "We have always known that heedless self-interest was bad morals; we know now that it is bad economics"--F.D.R.
by Ida B on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 06:24:44 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: While it is counterintuitive (none / 0)

And Obama didn't cast a vote

http://www.iht.com/articles/2008/02/14/a merica/intel.php


by Bornagaindem on Mon Jun 23, 2008 at 08:53:39 AM EST
[ Parent ]

It depends on what bus I'm thrown under... (2.00 / 1)

I don't know how strongly Obama will support gay rights, but I'm more than willing to give him the benefit of the doubt.

But after watching various Sunday news shows today and repeatedly hearing about Sam Nunn as a potential VP pick, my doubts are growing. I don't seriously believe he would actually pick Nunn, but it bothers me that Obama could be so completely tone-deaf on that issue to even let speculation about that choice become so rampant.

And if Sam Nunn does make it to the ticket, that's not a bus I will lie down for. And yes, that means that I would vastly prefer a President McCain to even the remote possibility of a President Nunn.


by fsm on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 07:00:51 PM EST

This gay man totally agrees with you. (2.00 / 2)

I've always been amazed that most liberal dems mention DADT as one of Bill Clinton's failures. He was the first Democratic candidate to ever bring up gay civil rights, and the first President to ever tackle it, period--IN HIS FIRST WEEK IN OFFICE!

Sam Nunn and Colin Powell tried to embarrass the President and deep-six gay rights at the same time. The compromise we came away with was better than no loaf at all, and dramatically reduced hate crimes in the military, not to mention court martials based on orientation.

But it's worth remembering that Sam Nunn didn't even want that compromise. And definitely worth remembering the next time you hear someone trying to create some fairy tale about "Bill Clinton the bigot"...


by BJJ Fighter on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 07:43:49 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: This gay man totally agrees with you. (2.00 / 2)

Absolutely spot on.

I'd rec this a thousnad times if I could.

Gay youth who have no real knowldedge of what really transpired there still fault Clinton, when he was actually sticking his neck out for us and got thrown under the bus by some in his own party.  Sort of like now when all the progressives became stepford - Starrs this primary season to denigrate Bill.  Gawd I hate that .


Hell's bells, even the GOP didn't have to crucify Eisenhower's record in order to make Reagan their 'saint'. We can have two great ones, you know?
by emsprater on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 09:08:23 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: This gay man totally agrees with you. (2.00 / 2)

Agree, and the irony about the criticism of Clinton over DADT is that that is exactly what we should be striving for!

As a straight person, I don't have to declare on any form or to any person that I am straight, nor does anyone ever ask me if I am.

They don't ask, I don't tell; it's irrelevant to anything I do other than..well, you know, and that's between me and him!

DADT should come naturally, as it does for straight people.

Clinton took a step forward, which is the way to make change (all these Obama supporters who are expecting radical change are in for a big shock and disappointment), which is why I like the Clintons. They understand that change takes gentle nudging, but they make it happen.


by Juno on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 09:09:13 PM EST
[ Parent ]

I really appreciate your comments; right on. (2.00 / 1)

Thanks for your comments; it's good to know there are others out there with a sense of what centrist (i.e., pragmatic) Democrats have accomplished. They are successful people who know how to get things done.

It's galling to hear Caroline Kennedy wax philosophical about how Barack will be a "President like her father". Not all of us are impressed by that. When I've asked Kennedy-philes about what they regard as JFK's greatest accomplishment, about one-third tell me it was the Cuban Missile Crisis, one-third tell me about his dream to go to the moon. The other third tell me that I'm vile for bringing it up, given that Kennedy's term was cut short by assassination.

The truly great Democratic President, for me, was a man who declared War on Poverty. And reduced it from 22% of the population when he took office, to 13% when he left. He proposed and passed--with Republican Everett Dirksen's help--the Civil Rights Act of 1964 and Voting Rights Act of 1965. He completed the New Deal--which gave income protection to the elderly--by ensuring they had health benefits through Medicare. And for the poor, Medicaid. And don't forget Head Start, VISTA, and well, I could go on.

He started us down the road to a Great Society; we're not there yet, but someday I still feel we will make it. Now THAT'S a visionary. And I'll put his speech outlining "The Great Society" against any speech given in this electoral cycle, on either side. But trust me...you'll rarely hear our friends on the left praise this man. I grew up during the years he was our President, and he will always be one of my heroes.


by BJJ Fighter on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 09:31:14 PM EST
[ Parent ]

What? (2.00 / 2)

You're concerned about Obama because other people are speculating that he might be on the VP list?

Seems like that's unfair to our guy, no?

I mean, people are speculating that he's take Hagel, too... and we all know that this would never happen.

Pundits are paid to speculate on off-the-wall BS.


You can't stop the signal.

President "That One"

by Dracomicron on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 07:46:09 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Wheels on the bus (2.00 / 1)

go round and round.


by grlpatriot on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 07:48:39 PM EST

Re: Wheels on the bus (2.00 / 1)

Yep, and eventually one tires of always being under those wheels, and one does the "Hulk' and throws the bus back to the yard.

Aren't gay imaginations fun?


Hell's bells, even the GOP didn't have to crucify Eisenhower's record in order to make Reagan their 'saint'. We can have two great ones, you know?
by emsprater on Sun Jun 22, 2008 at 09:04:14 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Wheels on the bus (2.00 / 1)

I can never tell if you're talking about your man McCain or not.


by GenaMeana on Mon Jun 23, 2008 at 01:42:57 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Even as the Bus Rolls Over Me, (none / 0)

You have to love any diary that starts,
"I'm not the sharpest tool in the shed -- hell, I'm probably not even in the top 50%."

It's always the dullest tools that can never seem to imagine writing anything poking fun at themselves. Great diary & a great read. I love the (unwarranted) attitude. It'll be fine.


McCainuire, The Wrath Of Not Enough Naps.
by catilinus on Mon Jun 23, 2008 at 07:24:11 AM EST


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