Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH.

Before I begin this diary, I want to add to following caveats:

1.  By no means am I stating that BO is the presumptive nominee.
2.  This Diary is not about BO's electability (although I have some reservations).

Okay - now that we got that over with, let's get to the point.

Based on the hypothetical that BO is the nominee, I think its highly possible that sexism may have cost his chances at the WH.  Yes - you heard me right - sexism.

What we know from many of the exit polls is that there is a startling number of HRC's supporters who state that under no circumstances they will vote for BO.  

According to the exit polls, half of Clinton's supporters in Indiana would not vote for Obama in a general election match up with John McCain. A third of Clinton voters said they would pick McCain over Obama, while 17 percent said they would not vote at all. Just 48 percent of Clinton supporters said they would back Obama in November.

Obama gets even less support from Clinton backers in North Carolina. There, only 45 percent of Clinton supporters said they would vote for Obama over McCain. Thirty-eight percent said they would vote for McCain while 12 percent said they would not vote.

Obama voters appear to be more willing to support Clinton in November. In Indiana, 59 percent of Obama backers said they'd vote for Clinton, and 70 percent of Obama backers in North Carolina said they'd support the New York Democrat.

http://politicalticker.blogs.cnn.com/200 8/05/06/exit-polls-half-of-clintons-supp orters-wont-back-obama/

As we all know, based on BO's current coalition, it would be impossible for him to carry the votes needed to win the presidential nomination without getting most, if not all of HRC's supporters.  Therein lies the problem.  I believe, amongst other things, that these polls reflect a genuine inconsolable anger at the sexism bestowed onto HRC from the media, party establishment and some BO supporters.

"The on-line community is solidly behind Obama and I've read many posts and comments saying Obama voters would never, ever vote for Hillary so when I first heard these statistics on teevee I was quite surprised. Then I realized what is happening here. The media is fueling their anger. It's that simple. And there are a lot of rank and file Democratic voters who are very upset. I might add that a few bloggers have had their bodies snatched away too. And on CNN Sunday, this notion was validated by Roger Simon:

SIMON: ...I find that if you go into Hillary crowds, the anger you find on the part of her supporters, especially women supporters, is directed not against Barack Obama, but against the media.

ZERNIKE: Yes. I mean, I think what people were reacting to this week wasn't so much the media declaring the race over, as it was this kind of "Ding dong the witch is dead" quality about that tone to the comments. And I do think people are angry. And I think when you look at, you know, the percentages of Hillary Clinton supporters who say they won't support Obama, I think Roger is right. They're mad at - they're mad at the media. They're not necessarily mad at Obama.

http://www.crooksandliars.com/2008/05/12 when-pundits-decide#more-29028

I would suffice is to say that its more than the media (or party establishment), but let's go with that.  Here's an example:

The Sunday morning talk shows acted almost as though Democratic Party poobahs were saying, 'Oh, all right, let the little woman run.' There was senator Chris Dodd, who made not a ripple in his own presidential campaign, lecturing Clinton that she could run only if she was 'positive.' Clinton would be allowed to run her campaign so long as she conducted herself in a manner consistent with Dodd's diktats. Well thank you Senator Dodd.

The consistent theme was that Hillary could run, but she could not 'campaign.' Her voice as a candidate would have to be silenced. She would have to restrict herself to laudatory remarks about herself, not comparisons with or criticisms of her opponent. 'Let the little woman run, so long as she remains positive,' was the apparent order of the day. Mr. Obama had become sacrosanct.

Would pundits and politicians be treating Clinton the same way if she was a man? Not on your life. If Chris Dodd were still in the race? Lecturing him? Telling him he had to limit his campaign speech to the politically correct and inoffensive? Barring him from comparing his campaign to that of his opponent? They would be telling Dodd to 'take off the gloves.' Clearly there are overtones of sexual discrimination in the way Democrats are treating Clinton.

http://www.pr-inside.com/andy-martin-ask s-if-hillary-clinton-r588711.htm

If somehow you have been living under a rock and don't know what I am talking about in the media, please see here, here, here, here, here, here, here, and here.

While opponents of HRC cheered as she was and continues to be sliced and diced by the vast majority of the press, in reality they may be doing what the 'vast right-wing conspiracy' wanted - ensuring a Republican WH.


 



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Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (2.00 / 16)

"The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference. The opposite of art is not ugliness, it's indifference. The opposite of faith is not heresy, it's indifference. And the opposite of life is not death, it's indifference."
Elie Wiesel
"Democracy! Bah! When I hear that word I reach for my feather Boa!" -- Allen Ginsberg
by canadian gal on Wed May 14, 2008 at 11:43:58 PM EST

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (1.85 / 7)

Yeah, Obama's already lost my vote.

So far, I've been very patient with the Democratic Party, and have let their lack of action regarding sexism in this election pass.

After watching John Edwards step on Hillary Clinton's neck yesterday, my patience with the party itself is wearing quite thin.


by bellarose on Thu May 15, 2008 at 07:40:48 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (1.85 / 7)

If you call that a "step on Hillary Clinton's neck", then the party probably never had your vote.


When you start out making the "slippery slope" argument, where do you draw the line?
by Jess81 on Thu May 15, 2008 at 08:42:21 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Financial Suicide to vote for Obama for MANY PEOPL (1.80 / 5)

Obama's newly changed healthcare 'plan' will virtually ensure that rates rise for 90% of people (so it wont 'discriminate') while keeping the worst aspect of it currently for people who dont have generous, corporate employers, the unaffordability of individual insurance for people with preexisting conditions (because then nobody will be able to afford it.)

Obama's trying to avoid that mandate, BUT ITS IMPOSSIBLE,

Read this:

http://www.nytimes.com/2008/03/28/us/pol itics/28clinton.html

THEN READ

Wikipedia article on Adverse Selection
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Adverse_sel ection

Mathematica Adverse Selection Simulation (free download)
http://demonstrations.wolfram.com/Advers eSelection/

http://www.economist.com/research/Econom ics/alphabetic.cfm?LETTER=A

Adverse selection

When you do business with people you would be better off
avoiding. This is one of two main sorts of market failure
often associated with insurance. The other is moral hazard.
Adverse selection can be a problem when there is asymmetric
information between the seller of insurance and the buyer;
in particular, insurance will often not be profitable when
buyers have better information about their risk of claiming
than does the seller. Ideally, insurance premiums should be
set according to the risk of a randomly selected person in
the insured slice of the population (55-year-old male
smokers, say). In practice, this means the average risk of
that group. When there is adverse selection, people who know
they have a higher risk of claiming than the average of the
group will buy the insurance, whereas those who have a
below-average risk may decide it is too expensive to be
worth buying. In this case, premiums set according to the
average risk will not be sufficient to cover the claims that
eventually arise, because among the people who have bought
the policy more will have above-average risk than
below-average risk. Putting up the premium will not solve
this problem, for as the premium rises the insurance policy
will become unattractive to more of the people who know they
have a lower risk of claiming. One way to reduce adverse
selection is to make the purchase of insurance compulsory,
so that those for whom insurance priced for average risk is
unattractive are not able to opt out.

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also read this about Obama's reliance on the FALSE PROMISE of 'consumer driven healthcare'

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Consumer_dr iven_health_care


"Critics argue that CDHC will cause consumers, particularly those less wealthy and educated, to avoid needed and appropriate health care because of the cost burden and the inability to make informed, appropriate choices. "Consumer-driven health care is badly named, because it's certainly not driven by consumers," said Jonathan Oberlander, political scientist, University of North Carolina, Chapel Hill. It's "really just shifting the cost of health care onto the backs of the patients." People with chronic illnesses, such as diabetes, will be hurt, because with a deductible of $3,000 to $4,000, such people will never be able to save anything in their savings accounts. "Employers like it because they're going to save money," but they're not going to fund these health care accounts adequately, he said. "Conservatives tend to support consumer-driven health care. They believe, as do a fair number of health economists, that people use too much health care, and use too much health care of little value. If you move to high-deductible plans, people will think twice. If I have a sore throat, instead of going to my physician, I'll have a cup of tea instead." [2]"

"Academic peer-reviewed research investigating the actual cost and quality impact of this new form of health care has been growing. Researchers at the Carlson School of Management at the University of Minnesota (Stephen T. Parente),[6] Harvard University (Meredith Rosenthal), University of Illinois at Chicago (Anthony LoSasso) and RAND Health Insurance Experiment have examined results of these plans. Health insurers, Aetna, Wellpoint, Humana and UnitedHealth Group have all provided their own independent analyses as well.

In general, most studies, starting with the RAND study, conclude that increasing the costs (co-payments and deductibles) of health care to the patient reduces the consumption of health care, but it reduces the consumption of both appropriate and inappropriate care, and the reduction is greater for low-income patients. For example, Newhouse, in summarizing the RAND study, reported that visits to doctors and hospitals decline with higher cost sharing, "although for low income families such cutbacks reduced their use of beneficial as well as unnecessary services and was estimated to have increased rates of death from preventable illness."[7] However, proponents counter these findings with studies indicating that CDHCs have broad appeal, provide a new option for the uninsured, and are leading to new incentives for people to be more engaged in managing their health.[8] One study found that the levels and trends of use of preventive and screening services by enrollees in consumer-directed health plans (CDHPs) was similar to that of enrollees in Preferred provider organization (PPO) plans. The authors concluded that "[p]eople enrolled in CDHPs such as those we studied do not underuse preventive services to any greater degree than do those in traditional PPOs."[9]

The Kaiser Family Foundation studied how consumer-driven health plans cover pregnancy. They found wide variations in cost sharing. Pregnant women could face exposure to high out-of-pocket costs under consumer-driven health plans, particularly when complications arise. In one scenario, a complicated pregnancy, with gestational diabetes, pre-term labor, cesarian section and neonatal intensive care, would cost $287,000. Under some consumer-directed health plans, the cost to the family would be $6,000, less than some traditional policies. But under other consumer-directed health plans, the cost to the family would be as high as $21,000.[10]"

SOME 'CHOICE', HUH?


public option=not affordable for middle. It cant cover all affordably, google adverse selection for why
by architek on Thu May 15, 2008 at 08:54:57 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Financial Suicide to vote for Obama for MANY P (2.00 / 1)

Eh, I'm not going to troll-rate you but I'm pretty sure that your post is abuse of some sort.  It's not germaine to the diarist's topic, it's not really a response to me, and both it, and your sig line, are deliberately difficult to read.

It's like you just posted a long line of pictures just because you could.


When you start out making the "slippery slope" argument, where do you draw the line?
by Jess81 on Thu May 15, 2008 at 09:00:46 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Financial Suicide to vote for Obama for MANY P (none / 0)

Except you DID troll rate him.


by Jordache on Thu May 15, 2008 at 09:45:39 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Financial Suicide to vote for Obama for MANY P (none / 0)

C'mon, you had it coming.


by niksder on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:18:34 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Financial Suicide to vote for Obama for MANY P (2.00 / 1)

Health care is a feminist issue.


by redwagon on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:29:50 PM EST
[ Parent ]

I know you're passionate about healtcare.. (none / 0)

Shouldn't this be a separate diary?


by louisprandtl on Thu May 15, 2008 at 11:44:29 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (1.00 / 3)

So go join the Greedy Old Prostitutes (G.O.P.)


It's time to restore balance and fairness to our economy,... It's time to stop giving tax cuts to corporations that ship jobs overseas... - Barack Obama
by Lefty Coaster on Thu May 15, 2008 at 08:51:42 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Thanks! (2.00 / 4)


>So go join the Greedy Old Prostitutes (G.O.P.)

Reminds me of Marie Antoinette's famous retort to the line "The people are starving, they need bread"

"let them eat cake"

immediately preceding the French Revolution

Your sig is appropriate too.

"Fascism should more properly be called corporatism because it is the merger of state and corporate power." - Benito Mussolini.

HOW true. Et tu, Brut?


public option=not affordable for middle. It cant cover all affordably, google adverse selection for why
by architek on Thu May 15, 2008 at 08:59:51 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Thanks! (2.00 / 1)

The Clinton Healthcare plan is as much a merge of corporate and state power as anything.

And... this is really a discussion that belongs elsewhere.  Like how about not not hijacking every thread you're in?


When you start out making the "slippery slope" argument, where do you draw the line?
by Jess81 on Thu May 15, 2008 at 09:05:50 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Thanks! (2.00 / 1)

You're wrong about that. Hillary's plan, unlike Obama's, would actually have forced corporations to comply with government mandates/regulations, which would have eaten into their profits. Instead of a merger of corporate and state power, her plan involves a reining in of some corporate practices for the good of the general welfare. This is the reason why so many executives from the private health insurance industry like writing those fat checks to the Obama campaign -- Obama is great for their bottom line.

But you are right. This discussion is off topic.


Fortune strums a mournful tune for those whose campaigns peak too soon. --Bored of the Rings
by Inky on Thu May 15, 2008 at 11:04:52 AM EST
[ Parent ]

I'm voting the new NARAL-approved (2.00 / 3)

"present" vote if he's the nominee, personally. Down-ticket races only. There's no reason to take chances with my vote. Obama doesn't, why should I?

The fight against sexism has replaced my defense of abortion rights as one of my biggest issues.


Rules are not necessarily sacred, principles are. - Franklin Delano Roosevelt
by anna belle on Thu May 15, 2008 at 09:14:21 AM EST
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Re: I'm voting the new NARAL-approved (none / 0)

"Present" votes in the Illinois legislature are functionally the same as a "no" vote.  It isn't like
the US Senate.
by MascaraSnake on Thu May 15, 2008 at 09:19:28 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: I'm voting the new NARAL-approved (2.00 / 2)

Yes, I know. I'm functionally saying Nobama.


Rules are not necessarily sacred, principles are. - Franklin Delano Roosevelt
by anna belle on Thu May 15, 2008 at 09:20:08 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: I'm voting the new NARAL-approved (1.00 / 1)

I know.  And yes to McCain.


by MascaraSnake on Thu May 15, 2008 at 09:21:20 AM EST
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Re: I'm voting the new NARAL-approved (2.00 / 1)

No. See, I'd have to pull the lever for McCain for that to happen. You are, of course, perfectly free to live in whatever closed-down mental space you wish while you assume you know what votes not cast are all about, but that doesn't make your thinking true, or even rational.


Rules are not necessarily sacred, principles are. - Franklin Delano Roosevelt
by anna belle on Thu May 15, 2008 at 09:31:12 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: I'm voting the new NARAL-approved (none / 0)

Well, one of them is going to win.

You are free to take your revenge out on the voters, young people, African Americans, the troops, women who didn't vote for Hillary Clinton any way you want, but that doesn't make your decision correct, or even ethical.

But your vote is your vote, of course.  I hope you're well-off enough not to have to live with the consequence of it.  I feel sorry for Hillary Clinton - when she said her voters "need a President" she probably thought it was true.


by Jordache on Thu May 15, 2008 at 09:36:19 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re:This is not helpful. (2.00 / 1)

It is way too early for to be talking about this.

If Obama gets the nod, it will be the people who didn't vote for him in the primary who will determine his fate.  If he's half as great as his supporters seem to think, there's nothing to worry about.  


by half nelson on Thu May 15, 2008 at 10:11:17 AM EST
[ Parent ]

If AMERICA is half as great as she thinks she is (none / 0)

we have nothing to worry about.


yo mir kennen
by RisingTide on Thu May 15, 2008 at 10:43:55 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: I'm voting the new NARAL-approved (none / 0)

If the Democrat loses by one vote then your non-vote for the Democrat leads to a Republican becoming president--which directly leads to (a) no form of universal health care, (b) more people dying in Iraq, and (c) the repeal of Roe v. Wade.

If there are a million people just like you, and the Democrat loses by a million votes, then you each share the responsibility for (a), (b) and (c).

The mature thing to do is to vote your conscience in the primary and vote for the lesser of two evils in the general. So far you are half-way there.


by Brannon on Thu May 15, 2008 at 11:32:46 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: I'm voting the new NARAL-approved (none / 0)

Ah, another threat from those that have been bullying us all along. If you don't vote for Obama, even if he doesn't care about health care for you, the world will fall apart.


by splashy on Fri May 16, 2008 at 04:17:36 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (2.00 / 2)

Hi, Canadian Gal,

You are absolutely correct. And watching other democrats engage in this behavior is as disheartening as it is fascinating. The political play of course has turned into a football game, and the hooligans, many of whom one would think were wise enough to understand attacking thy family member, appealing to sexist stereotyping and character assassinations  is not  game,  but will have ramifications.

I suppose the greatest irony the morning after head scratching will of course shift the blame toward everyone but the most obvious culprit, themselves.


by gorgias on Thu May 15, 2008 at 09:38:02 AM EST
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Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (none / 0)

This diary is an enormous shell-game.

You're not saying it's Obama's fault, YET, you're saying that voters are going to take it out on him, which isn't necessarily a good thing, YET, you're recing people who say they're going to vote for McCain, which is a bad thing, YET, you're encouraging it.

If McCain wins, it's the fault of a) Democrats who allow it, and b) the media, for whom he is, and has always been, the favorite candidate.

I wish I was detached enough to look at it as a game, but I'm not.


by Jordache on Thu May 15, 2008 at 09:48:40 AM EST
[ Parent ]

I Saw Elie Wiesel listening to Bush, Israel 60th (none / 0)

"The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference. The opposite of art is not ugliness, it's indifference. The opposite of faith is not heresy, it's indifference. And the opposite of life is not death, it's indifference."
Elie Wiesel

Ironically this same man is indifferent to the suffering of Palistinains. Apparently his words only apply to those of Jewish decent and our collective feelings towards the Jewish Community. I just find it ironic you quote a hypocrite. I am not indifferent regarding the human rights violations of Israel I am quite engaged in denouncing the oppression and bigotry going on there.


by edtastic on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:27:58 PM EST
[ Parent ]

They only ensure it if people vote against their (2.00 / 4)

interests.


John McCain on social security.
by heresjohnny on Wed May 14, 2008 at 11:48:08 PM EST

Re: They only ensure it if people vote against the (2.00 / 0)

Agreed....  I keep hearing from people who say they will not vote for Obama ever, period, etc.... and you probe into the whys and wherefores and some of them say it is because they are disgusted feminists... you think you are disgusted by this primary season, think, if you will, of a McCain Presidency.  SCOTUS veers wildly Right and women lose the right to choose...  To say nothing of the patriarchal rule that is the hallmark of the Republican party... there are female Republicans... they trot them out to try to appeal to independents, but these are not the people setting policy or the Republican party.


"If you ever post anything on that website again, I will shove a motherboard so far up your a$$...!" C.J Cregg
by JenKinFLA on Thu May 15, 2008 at 08:37:22 AM EST
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Re: They only ensure it if people vote against the (2.00 / 0)

Here's what I don't like about this thread: while it claims to be descriptive, it's really a loose interpretations of both real and perceived slights to Hillary Clinton, who, prior to being dethroned by the voters was one of the most powerful members of the Democratic party.

Yet the diarist is mojoing people who say they're going to vote for John McCain.  It's a bunch of slippery shifting reasons, but the purpose is clear - it's a place to hang your hat if you're upset at how people voted and want to get back at them.


by MascaraSnake on Thu May 15, 2008 at 09:29:51 AM EST
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Re: They only ensure it if people vote against the (none / 0)

They're working at a self-fulfilling prophecy but clearly they don't take those issues very seriously if they're willing to try to make their predictions happen rather than fight back tooth & nail. It's not about the issues, it's about 1 person.


John McCain on social security.
by heresjohnny on Thu May 15, 2008 at 10:36:05 AM EST
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Re: They only ensure it if people vote against the (2.00 / 1)

Don't tell me it's not about the issues. I'm not going to vote for McCain, but some of us were concerned about issues such as UHC, SS, and NCLB, and preferred Hillary's stands on these issues. Also, some of us, after witnessing the spinelessness of the Democratic congress after the 2006 elections were hoping that someone with a fighting spirit, rather than a "post-partisan" philosophy, would head the executive branch of government. And given Obama's ever shrinking coattails, I have very little hope for meaningful change on the federal level, despite all advertisements to the contrary.


Fortune strums a mournful tune for those whose campaigns peak too soon. --Bored of the Rings
by Inky on Thu May 15, 2008 at 11:23:20 AM EST
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Re: They only ensure it if people vote against the (none / 0)

Given the Democrats have won elections this year in primarily Republican districts where the GOP ran ads attacking the Democratic nominee by trying to tie them to Obama (and Rev. Wright), I have seen no evidence that Obama's coattails are shrinking...

And, given the grassroots support Obama has been able to build I think his coattails will be quite lengthy come November.


"If you ever post anything on that website again, I will shove a motherboard so far up your a$$...!" C.J Cregg
by JenKinFLA on Thu May 15, 2008 at 04:39:09 PM EST
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My interest is universal health care (none / 0)

A vote for Obama is AGAINST MY INTERESTS. Guess you have health care, or it would be in your interests to vote for Clinton.

Not to mention he wants to cut funding for NASA, another one of my interests.


by splashy on Fri May 16, 2008 at 04:20:05 PM EST
[ Parent ]

The hard truth (1.80 / 10)

that many want to change from the old style politics to a new style politics.

It's a generational thing.

Not an attack on Hillary as a woman in any way, as you seem to think.


overthrow the government~participate
by missliberties on Wed May 14, 2008 at 11:48:25 PM EST

You are kidding, right? (2.00 / 9)

Read this.. it sums my thoughts up perfectly:

http://www.realclearpolitics.com/article s/2008/05/clinton_campaign_brought_sexis .html


by phoenixdreamz on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:01:29 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: You are kidding, right? (2.00 / 6)

Brought sexism out of hiding? As a sensitive soul following popular culture in the past 10 years, I am not in the least bit surprised. It did not bring sexism out of hiding, just made it so bright and prominent that many who had missed it before could not miss it.


by Beet on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:53:18 AM EST
[ Parent ]

I have never ever heard a democrat... (2.00 / 4)

...argue that Clinton can't win for pres because she's a woman.

I have heard more than one instance of people arguing that Obama can't win because he's black.


by DawnG on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:02:11 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: I have never ever heard a democrat... (2.00 / 7)

this is not about HRC's electability or even BO's.  rather its about how the sexist treatment of the media has incensed and galvanized her supporters.


"Democracy! Bah! When I hear that word I reach for my feather Boa!" -- Allen Ginsberg
by canadian gal on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:16:13 AM EST
[ Parent ]

So? (2.00 / 3)

If it wasn't sex it'd be something else.

Obama got attacked for racial issues.  people went on TV arguing he's not really even "black".

We have got to stop letting the media manipulate US and turn US against each other.

The media is not our friend.  We need to stop getting upset and blaming EACH OTHER when they spout off.


by DawnG on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:24:55 AM EST
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Re: I have never ever heard a democrat... (2.00 / 3)

No doubt some in the media and some supporters of Obama have been unfair to Hillary.  Rhodes comments were despicable and I cringe each time I hear some in Obama's crowds boo mentions of Hillary's name.  Notwithstanding this, there are many Obama supporters who think highly of Senator Clinton and most respect women generally.  Moreover the sexism of a small minority of Obama supporters should no more be a reason not to vote for Obama than should the racism (evidenced in recent WV exit polls) of Hillary's supporters be a reason not to vote for Hillary.  I think that they are both personally very tolerant people and that is all that should matter in assessing whether the bigotry of some of their followers should be allowed to taint their candidacies.


by DreamsOfABlueNation on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:33:23 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: I have never ever heard a democrat... (2.00 / 2)

as i said to student guy down thread - if more people were like you and him, i sincerely doubt this would be a problem.


"Democracy! Bah! When I hear that word I reach for my feather Boa!" -- Allen Ginsberg
by canadian gal on Thu May 15, 2008 at 01:19:50 AM EST
[ Parent ]

There are more people like us! (none / 0)

and there are more hillary supporters who just want a damn democrat in the white house!

I believe this.

I also believe that many hillary supporters are hurt, and want a chance to be heard, and that they think that they can get that chance by saying they will vote McCain in the fall. They wont, I believe, but they do deserve consideration and thoughtfulness.


yo mir kennen
by RisingTide on Thu May 15, 2008 at 10:46:30 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: I have never ever heard a democrat... (2.00 / 3)

Obama has engaged in overt misogynistic rhetoric himself and has never once distanced himself from the misogyny dished out by his supporters. Most candidates would have been so mortified by Rhodes comments that they would have been in a panic to apologize and not have it attached to them - not Obama. You can call Clinton a fucking whore and it's okay with him. Even the vid goes viral you can do it. There's nothing so offensive that he'd distance himself from it.

How pathetic that the great Democratic party has reduced itself to this sordid level.


by Little Otter on Thu May 15, 2008 at 01:52:52 AM EST
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Re: I have never ever heard a democrat... (2.00 / 2)

RANDI RHODES HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH BARACK OBAMA.

Please, just please stop lying.  Can you stop lying?

Will you ever stop lying?  Is there any way you're ever going to stop lying?

Please?  Just once?  At least for a few minutes?


Unable to rec or rate. But I've got phantom mojos for miles.
by Agent77 on Thu May 15, 2008 at 02:22:13 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: I have never ever heard a democrat... (2.00 / 2)

im not sure thats what the commenter was stating.  but his silence was deafening considering that this event was held for his supporters - do you know what i am saying?


"Democracy! Bah! When I hear that word I reach for my feather Boa!" -- Allen Ginsberg
by canadian gal on Thu May 15, 2008 at 02:24:49 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: I have never ever heard a democrat... (2.00 / 0)

Has he even been asked about Rhodes? Has Hillary?  Has it occurred to you that they might regard nonsense spewed by unaffiliated radio personalities as sideshows?  They both have bigger fish to fry, and I doubt they have time to sit around and worry about Randi Rhodes.

It was one story that lasted about half a day in the news cycle. She's not Obama's responsibility.  Move on.


Stop H8
by mikeinsf on Thu May 15, 2008 at 02:31:30 AM EST
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um no. (2.00 / 1)

how did the crowd react when she said it?  that's the point.


"Democracy! Bah! When I hear that word I reach for my feather Boa!" -- Allen Ginsberg
by canadian gal on Thu May 15, 2008 at 02:34:11 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: um no. (2.00 / 4)

Some people laughed.  That's not Barack Obama's responsibility.  I don't know what you think he should do - perhaps call a press conference denying allegations that Hillary Clinton is a fucking whore?  You can see how that might be a problem.

It would be one thing if it had anything to do with him, but it didn't.  Hillary Clinton isn't expected to apologize for everything bad said about Barack Obama.

Keep in mind that Little Otter has said that Randi Rhodes is her reason for voting against Barack Obama, so this is an ongoing argument.


When you start out making the "slippery slope" argument, where do you draw the line?
by Jess81 on Thu May 15, 2008 at 02:41:08 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: um no. (none / 0)

I'm confused.  Randi Rhodes said something so completely stupid that you don't even have to ask the campaign if they agree with it, and THAT's the reason for voting for McCain?

So Sean Hannity and Rush Limbaugh and many others will support McCain.  Pretty hateful stuff over the years from just those two.

And amazingly for all the hatred toward Sen. Clinton, a larger majority of Obama supporters say they would vote for her in the fall than Clinton supporters would support Obama.

But Obama deserves to be punished for those supporters who attack Clinton.  So the guy has 12,000 people in an adoring crowd.  300 boo at Clinton's name, and Obama hates women?

OK, now I get.


by niksder on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:28:20 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: I have never ever heard a democrat... (2.00 / 4)

No - that's a myth that started in NoQuarter.  The event was sponsored by Randi Rhodes home radio station.

A couple of Obama supporters posted about it on my.barackobama.com - which is basically a networking site for Obama supporters - and said hey, our local progressive radio station is holding a fundraiser, let's meet up.

NoQuarter found that page and tried to make it into "Obama supporter Randi Rhodes calls Clinton a "fucking whore" in front of an Obama audience at an Obama fundraiser sponsored by Obama.  Here's the proof!"  It's been debunked.


by Jordache on Thu May 15, 2008 at 02:33:00 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: I have never ever heard a democrat... (2.00 / 1)

She is still a outspoken supporter of Obama who a lot of people listen to. And lets not forget how quickly he stuck his nose in the Imus crap and called for him to be fired...yet not a single word about one of his most outspoken supporters vile personal attack of a sitting US Senator. It was crap and if he is half the man he claims to be he should have said it was crap.


by nyarch on Thu May 15, 2008 at 10:42:50 AM EST
[ Parent ]

here's a thought! (none / 0)

when he gets to be the presidential nominee, he can address the whole notion of sexism, with Hillary by his side. And she can apologize for any "unhelpful remarks" by her side as well!


yo mir kennen
by RisingTide on Thu May 15, 2008 at 10:49:05 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: I have never ever heard a democrat... (none / 0)

I can imagine reasonable people thinking that Obama agrees with Rhodes that Clinton is a whore.  He doesn't have a responsibility to denounce everyone who says something bad about Clinton.  


by DreamsOfABlueNation on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:14:40 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: I have never ever heard a democrat... (none / 0)

can = can't


by DreamsOfABlueNation on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:17:00 PM EST
[ Parent ]

I have supported JRE since 2004. (2.00 / 2)

I didn't need his endorsement to help me decide who to support after he dropped out, and it didn't sway my opinion any more yesterday than it would have before Super Tuesday. But I do still respect his opinion enough to want to hear what he had to say. I think his heart was in the right place, and he was trying to start the party on the road to reconciliation. But he missed his chance.
When he got booed for mentioning Hillary's name several minutes in, he looked downright disgusted. Then the camara cut to Barack Obama, sitting on his little stool slowly clapping with a big ass smile on his face, like it was the funniest thing in the world for his supporters to be booing John Edwards for praising HRC's years of contributions to the party. I have been trying to convince myself for weeks to vote for him in Nov., but he lost my vote in that moment.
Yes, I know he made a belated half-hearted attempt to quiet the crowd. And no, I would never in a million years vote for McCain. But I am so disgusted by the disrespect for women in general, and HRC in particular, by the Obama camp and the Democratic leadership that they are going to have to earn my vote. Not just now, but from now on.  
by georgiapeach on Thu May 15, 2008 at 10:37:37 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Nope. (none / 0)

I came home early to catch the endorsement live. What I saw was very different.

The only time he clapped was to affirm John Edward's positive comments about Hillary.

When a very small portion of the crowd booed you can see Obama holding his arms out and asking them to stop.

I understand folks see what they want to see in situations but I really recommend that you go back and look at it again.


by CanuckinMA on Thu May 15, 2008 at 11:55:20 AM EST
[ Parent ]

WIsh that was more apparent (2.00 / 2)

It isn't.
Booing of senator Clinton, the sexism in the media, all of that really pisses a lot of us off.  Enough to consider not voting for Obama in the general.

I am a loyal democrat, and have been for many years.  There should have been more respect for Hillary, PERIOD. Not excuses that the Obama supporters so often use for not showing her respect. "Nutcracker"? "Claws come Out"-direct quote from Obama, "Bros Before Ho's"? , "Iron my Shirts?".

F*CK THAT!  
Obama should really have taken the politically courageous step of demanding that all stop.
Not only would that be courageous, it would be smart. Without Hillary supporters, he LOSES. No new coalition is strong enough to withstand losing us, forget it.  That is ridiculously naive.

So now, asking for unity and my democratic loyalty  when not much has been shown towards the candidate I hoped would win gives me some pause.


by Al Depansu on Thu May 15, 2008 at 11:12:35 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: WIsh that was more apparent (none / 0)

He has chastised his supporters who have gone over the top in opposing Hillary rather than just supporting him.


by DreamsOfABlueNation on Thu May 15, 2008 at 06:53:22 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: I have never ever heard a democrat... (none / 0)

How did she get further than any other woman in US history in becoming the POTUS??  How??


Toot, thank you for raising such a terrific person...You done good and we will have you in our hearts.
by hootie4170 on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:40:01 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: I have never ever heard a democrat... (none / 0)

Not sure if I get your post...  I'll take a shot, minorities will rise to power by different paths and not that of predominate white male paths.  


by jelyfish on Thu May 15, 2008 at 02:27:53 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: I have never ever heard a democrat... (2.00 / 1)

Um, how does your diary prove her campaign failed because of racism?


by The Distillery on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:55:36 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: I have never ever heard a democrat... (2.00 / 3)

i dont think i understand you comment.  but this diary is not about failed campaigns.


"Democracy! Bah! When I hear that word I reach for my feather Boa!" -- Allen Ginsberg
by canadian gal on Thu May 15, 2008 at 01:03:22 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: I have never ever heard a democrat... (2.00 / 1)

Oh, sorry.  That should have been sexism.  All right, then to use your words, how have the Democrats failed because of sexism?


by The Distillery on Thu May 15, 2008 at 01:09:08 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: I have never ever heard a democrat... (2.00 / 2)

again - its not about failed campaigns, but rather how some HRC supporters are feeling about what has happened.


"Democracy! Bah! When I hear that word I reach for my feather Boa!" -- Allen Ginsberg
by canadian gal on Thu May 15, 2008 at 01:11:15 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: The hard truth (1.75 / 4)

"many want to change from the old style politics to a new style politics."

A "New Style politics"? With Barack Obama? The corrupt product of the Chicago machine? Hahahahahaha. How inane, how naive.


by 07rescue on Thu May 15, 2008 at 02:27:20 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Is that like old time religion? (2.00 / 2)

What is old style politics?  And how is Obama's style somehow "new" other than the fact that he has raised boatloads of money over the internet?

And what exactly do you expect he will do for young people?  I know what he has done so far: soaked them for a bunch of money and free labor.

A little cynicism is a good thing.


by lombard on Thu May 15, 2008 at 07:07:08 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: The hard truth (2.00 / 3)

Your new style of Politics is a very old style of Politics, sweetie.


by bellarose on Thu May 15, 2008 at 07:43:46 AM EST
[ Parent ]

LOL (2.00 / 1)

YEAHSURERIGHT, there is nothing new with Obama.


For Obama it now becomes: Faith, hope and CHANGE! And the greatest of these is Change!
by TeresaInPa on Thu May 15, 2008 at 10:12:08 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (1.85 / 7)

hahaha, you almost got me....I was typing a serious response and I caught myself

but yeah yeah Democrats will lose everyone is sexist, and only HRC supporters and Republicans can see the truth, everyone else was to dumb to see it....

got it.


Dream for tomorrow but fight for it today.
by TruthMatters on Wed May 14, 2008 at 11:50:34 PM EST

If Clinton had won... (2.00 / 8)

...someone would have just written a "why racism may have cost the dems the WH" diary.

It's a lose-lose situation no matter how you look at it.  It serves no purpose to foster these memes.

Clinton did not lose ground in the nomination because of her gender anymore than Obama gained ground because of his race.  She lost ground for a lot of different reasons.  he gained ground for a lot of different reasons.

It's intellectually insulting to boil it all down to sex and race.


by DawnG on Wed May 14, 2008 at 11:57:21 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: If Clinton had won... (2.00 / 1)

Kudos to you DawnG


Toot, thank you for raising such a terrific person...You done good and we will have you in our hearts.
by hootie4170 on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:40:53 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Hillary lost because... (2.00 / 5)

Mark Penn is an idiot.  True, there really is 'a lot of different reasons', but the Venn diagram of reasons has a rather large bubble labeled 'Penn' that overlaps most of them.


by protothad on Thu May 15, 2008 at 02:05:44 AM EST
[ Parent ]

I agree (2.00 / 2)

I am an Obama supporter, but I have always really admired Hillary.  I think that she is much better than her campaign suggests, her campaign staff (especially Penn) has done a HUGE disservice to her.


by mnl1012 on Thu May 15, 2008 at 02:25:42 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: If Clinton had won... (1.00 / 1)

Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha

Yeah right if Obama had been a brand new senator from Illinois and been white he would have won too. And he would have won 80-90 % of the black vote to get his victories if he were white just because of his message.

Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha haven't heard such a good one in a long time


by Bornagaindem on Thu May 15, 2008 at 07:45:39 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: If Clinton had won... (none / 0)

Then I suggest you look into the way the black vote has gone in the past before you make a fool of yourself again.  80-90%, every time.


When you start out making the "slippery slope" argument, where do you draw the line?
by Jess81 on Thu May 15, 2008 at 09:03:23 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: If Clinton had won... (none / 0)

IN THE PRIMARY. This is a comment on the primary not on the general election where you are correct they vote 80-90 % democratic. But are you telling me that black people would be voting for Obama in the primary if he weren't black? Au Contraire they would be voting for Clinton by nearly the same margins.


by Bornagaindem on Sun May 18, 2008 at 09:48:29 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (2.00 / 15)

Your premise is flawed.  The media serves no master other than itself.  The media benefits when there is conflict.  As such, it plays up anything and everything controversial that it can.

If any particular outlet doesn't run with it, the others will, and that outlet suffers.

We spent how long talking about the National Guard accusations on President Bush in 2004?  How long on Swiftboating?  What about Reverend Wright?  What about flag pins?  What about $400 haircuts?  

Face it - your candidate took some bodyblows, just like the others.  She took more than several others did because she was a more formidable and prominent candidate.  While I'm sure there is some sexism endemic to some in the media, the media is only a sample of the populace at large.  What you find scattered among all of us, you will find scattered among subsets of us.

There is no meaningful bias against Hillary Clinton because she is a woman.  There is a heck of a lot of dislike of her by some.  That dislike is often irrational and wrong, but some of it is borne of her own record and her own words.  She's never been afraid of making waves, which is admirable, but making waves makes enemies.

When she steamrolled Democratic congressmen during Hillarycare, she made enemies.  When she attacked the women who, rightly we later found out, claimed sexual relationships with her husband, she made enemies.  When she continually added to the list of states that "do not matter" she made enemies.

She is hardly unique in pissing people off.  Most every prominent politician does this.

Please accept the fact that she is no more a special and unique slowflake than is anybody else up there.  The media may have dogpiled her, but no more so than they dogpiled Obama over Wright.


by Reaper0Bot0 on Wed May 14, 2008 at 11:52:03 PM EST

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (none / 0)

Brilliant analysis again, Reaper.  Appreciated another one of your posts earlier.  You should write some diaries...miles ahead of the norm around here.


John McCain is surprisingly bad for this country
by minnesotaryan on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:13:30 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (2.00 / 2)

Nice job Reaper..I'd mojo, but you know...


Toot, thank you for raising such a terrific person...You done good and we will have you in our hearts.
by hootie4170 on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:42:05 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (2.00 / 3)

i have long said that the media sucks and you can deny it all you want, but i think you are precisely proving my point in doing so.


"Democracy! Bah! When I hear that word I reach for my feather Boa!" -- Allen Ginsberg
by canadian gal on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:51:08 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (2.00 / 4)

Then you misunderstand my argument completely.

They are jackals, but not sexist jackals.  If Hillary was a man, they'd be hitting her for something else.

Everybody who runs viably for national office is gonna get hit by one or more proverbial mac trucks from the press.

If you can't take the heat, get out of the kitchen.  Those were her words.  Take the lesson from it.  These things are hard because they matter so much.  If she didn't have to overcome adversity, she'd be a far weaker president.


by Reaper0Bot0 on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:59:23 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (2.00 / 4)

i agree with everything you just wrote EXCEPT that its not sexist as illustrated in the links i provided.  but at the end of the day it does not matter what i think.  i am just trying to shed some light on what i am seeing around me.


"Democracy! Bah! When I hear that word I reach for my feather Boa!" -- Allen Ginsberg
by canadian gal on Thu May 15, 2008 at 01:09:10 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (2.00 / 1)

That's more than fair, and certainly welcome.


by Reaper0Bot0 on Thu May 15, 2008 at 01:10:11 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (none / 0)

I love this new diarist too. Makes brilliant points. And there's something about the cogent style...

I wonder if reaperbot may be one of the 'disappeared' come back to MYDD to save us?


by duende on Thu May 15, 2008 at 06:20:31 AM EST
[ Parent ]

The GOP wins on the sexism scoreboard (2.00 / 3)

Look, there might be angry feelings and resentment from Hillary supporters towards an Obama-led ticket, but from a RATIONAL perspective, there is NO way that "sexism" costs the Democrats this year.

You know what's sexist?:

- McCain laughing along with the crowd when he gets the question "How do we beat the bitch [Clinton]?"

  • far right-wing anti-choice positions
  • every single f'ing word out of Limbaugh's, Glenn Beck's, Coulter's, etc.'s mouths
  • the kind of federal judges that a Republican president would put in place

Maybe you lack faith in the rationality of Democratic women, but I believe they will make the smart choice and pick the pro-choice, progressive Democratic candidate.


by Slim Tyranny on Wed May 14, 2008 at 11:52:12 PM EST

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (2.00 / 6)

This woman is proud to have voted for Obama, and feels very strongly that Hillary's treatment by the media was not only fair, but was entirely justified given the negative campaign she chose to run.  If Obama had her numbers he would have been laughed out of the election months ago.  Take a look at what happened to Huckabee when the numbers turned against him, he became a big joke.  The same happened to Edwards, Romney, and every other losing candidate in this and previous presidential elections.  Hillary was treated with a deference that is unprecedented, and given that fact it is amazing to me that her supporters continue to complain about how she is being treated.


by Renie on Wed May 14, 2008 at 11:55:54 PM EST

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (1.83 / 6)

its v. nice that you voted for BO, and you are certainly entitled to your opinion about the media.  but alas - a huge majority of HRC supporters (you know, the people I am talking about here) disagree with you, and so do a lot of non-partisan media monitors.


"Democracy! Bah! When I hear that word I reach for my feather Boa!" -- Allen Ginsberg
by canadian gal on Wed May 14, 2008 at 11:58:45 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (2.00 / 1)

Check out Todd's analysis of some recent polls.  Obama and Clinton have almost identical support in the national election.  I think she maybe has a few higher percentage points with women, he has a few higher with men.


John McCain is surprisingly bad for this country
by minnesotaryan on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:15:11 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (2.00 / 4)

so, we should let those sour hillary supporters blackmail the convention???

and that is sexism how?????

pretzel logic cangal


by citizendave on Wed May 14, 2008 at 11:56:56 PM EST

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (2.00 / 3)

I have faith that the majority of Hillary supporters are real Dems who will support the nominee in November. I'm trul unconcerned about a handful of trolls.


"As Putin rears his head and comes into the air space of the United States of America, where-where do they go? It's Alaska. It's just right over the border."
by fugazi on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:02:44 AM EST
[ Parent ]

HA! (2.00 / 2)

Here's your logic:

Sexism cost Hillary (the MOST ELECTABLE DEMOCRAT [TM]) the nomination in the Democratic primary...where the voters generally are less sexist.

But...wait...sexism wouldn't affect her at all in the general election!!!

LOGICAL!!!!


by Terrance Manley on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:00:36 AM EST

Re: HA! (2.00 / 4)

where did i say it was sexism in the electorate - its the media.


"Democracy! Bah! When I hear that word I reach for my feather Boa!" -- Allen Ginsberg
by canadian gal on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:02:19 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: HA! (none / 0)

I don't see how that substantive alters your point.  There's no evidence that anything you're laying at the feet of the media would suddenly disappear in the general.

I don't really follow you in general.  Older white women are angry at the media, therefore Obama will lose?

As a woman myself who voted for Obama and who knows maybe a maximum of two Clinton supporters,  I'm not exactly up on the sentiments running high among Clinton supporters, but I find it hard to believe that they would retaliate against the media by denying African Americans their first President.  Especially since the majority of McCain threatening voters on this site are men.


When you start out making the "slippery slope" argument, where do you draw the line?
by Jess81 on Thu May 15, 2008 at 02:51:18 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: HA! (2.00 / 2)

"Older white women are angry at the media" -because that is the only people that voted for her?????

for all reading these here, maybe this comment will enlighten you on what is being said in the diary.


"Democracy! Bah! When I hear that word I reach for my feather Boa!" -- Allen Ginsberg
by canadian gal on Thu May 15, 2008 at 02:56:33 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Yes, throw those words back at her (none / 0)

Plenty of us guys voted for her and plenty of us guys don't like Obama.


by lombard on Thu May 15, 2008 at 07:23:27 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (2.00 / 3)

Has there been sexism against Senator Clinton during this nomination process? Yes. Has there also been racism directed at Senator Obama? Yes.

But any person who votes for McCain in November is damaging the cause of women's rights. I wonder how many true feminists are comfortable with the idea of four more years of a Republican President?


by chicagovigilante on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:01:39 AM EST

so what are you going to do about it? (2.00 / 2)


McCain does Not support the troops
by hope monger on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:01:59 AM EST

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (2.00 / 2)

People who vote for Hillary are racist.
People who vote for Obama are sexist.
Got it.
Can you hear the Bushevik Party laughing their asses off at some Democrats?
by Nomo Clintons on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:03:53 AM EST

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (2.00 / 3)

I cannot believe that you actually attached that citizens united not timid shit of a graphic with your diary. What a disgrace! How the hell does that relate to "sexism" that cost dems the white house? Wouldn't you think that sexism caused by dems would cost them the white house? If the media is sexist, why should Obama pay the price? Why should we all (yourself excluded) pay the price and end up with batshit crazy McCain?

Whatever point you were trying to make, it was in poor taste, with poor judgement, and little to no sense.


_____________
changiness
by lizardbox on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:03:56 AM EST

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (2.00 / 5)

i attached the graphic to illustrate my point.  i have written many diaries on this topic and well - if you even check the comments on this diary, there are MANY people that are denying this exists.  you're right its not fair that BO should pay the price - but this is what happens when you, me , BO and the democratic party let these things go unchecked.


"Democracy! Bah! When I hear that word I reach for my feather Boa!" -- Allen Ginsberg
by canadian gal on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:08:32 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Action Required (2.00 / 3)

They don't go unchecked, believe me. May be sometimes, but there are always people, good people, working hard for justice and equality (ani difranco, dennis kucinich, to name two of my heroes).

I know you post about this all the time. I read most of your diaries when time permits. But examine your last paragraph:


While opponents of HRC cheered as she was and continues to be sliced and diced by the vast majority of the press, in reality they may be doing what the 'vast right-wing conspiracy' wanted - ensuring a Republican WH.

So you say that things go unchecked, but you end your diary with a paragraph like this. It's a conclusion when what we need from you, me, Hillary, Barack and everyone else is a call, nay, a cry for action. You seem to do your homework for your pieces, next time I hope you concentrate your efforts on presenting us with the ways we can all change the status quo.


_____________
changiness
by lizardbox on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:19:34 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Action Required (2.00 / 3)

but alas - i have not let it go unchecked.  i have written many diaries and letters to the various media outlets.  and yes these diaries are calls to action, what is sad is that it falls mostly on deaf ears.


"Democracy! Bah! When I hear that word I reach for my feather Boa!" -- Allen Ginsberg
by canadian gal on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:30:46 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Action Required (2.00 / 2)

good on you for taking action. It doesn't fall on deaf ears.


_____________
changiness
by lizardbox on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:34:40 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Reality is often in poor taster (2.00 / 2)

I see no evidence the diary ADVOCATES losing the WH. Instead of being outraged that the diarist (naturally a WOMAN) dares point out what is obvious to many of us why aren't you outraged about the behavior of the media? Because you support Obama? Obama supporters seem all too willing to refuse to call out reprehensible behavior becasue it benefits them. I had to leave other blogs because so many Obnama supporters actaully adopt the media narrative-I think the diarist has many examples of this. Honestly, in many respects this primary has shown me that Dems are no different then Repugs-unswerving loyalty ignorant of reality, hatred of all that does not agree, throwing former allies and leaders under the bus when they don't toe the line-Krugman, Pres Clinton, Joe Wilson. Since I live in a liberal college town in the quintessential liberal state I have little to fear regardless of who wins. But since I care about the country I hope those blinded by the glow of Obama drop the blinders and give some thought to their D brothers and sisters who merely had the temerity to choose a different candidate and view the world through their eyes.


berkshiretrueblue Commited to helping elect a Democrat as President "Hypocrisy: prejudice with a halo" Ambroise Bierce
by berkshiretrueblue on Thu May 15, 2008 at 09:36:58 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Reality is often in poor taster (2.00 / 1)

incredibly put!!!! would mojo twice if i could!


"Democracy! Bah! When I hear that word I reach for my feather Boa!" -- Allen Ginsberg
by canadian gal on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:11:16 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Obama needs someone to address this (2.00 / 3)

There's got to be a surrogate for Obama that can talk to women and assure them that Barack Obama is not sexist, that he will defend freedom of choice, hire women to cabinet and judicial positions, and speak out against discrimination of all sorts.

Hey, I know!

Maybe Hillary Clinton can do it!  She wants to have a Democrat in the White House, and she seems to be respected by many women!  She can go to any women's groups that feel disappointed that some people were sexist against a female candidate for president.  Clinton even has credibility on the subject, having been a female candidate for president!

I have resolved your potentially troubling issue.  Hooray!


You can't stop the signal.

President "That One"

by Dracomicron on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:04:03 AM EST

Re: Obama needs someone to address this (2.00 / 2)

Obama--sexist?

Right, because Michelle is such a shivering wallflower, genuflecting at his every move. ;)

Seriously, I would be very afraid to ever have that powerful woman angry with me, and I can't imagine her hooking up with any man with the slightest sexist bone in his body.


by rhetoricus on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:57:54 AM EST
[ Parent ]

As Barack says... (2.00 / 1)

"Michelle isn't impressed with me when I win an election, she's impressed with me when I take out the garbage."


You can't stop the signal.

President "That One"

by Dracomicron on Thu May 15, 2008 at 09:09:40 AM EST
[ Parent ]

this is ridiculous - shame on you (1.00 / 7)


"McSame: He's Constipated and Ready to GO!
by Al Rodgers on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:04:13 AM EST

The media... (2.00 / 3)

Hillary supporters are pissed at the media and rightfully so. Here's a clip where Matthew's "mispeaks"


by soyousay on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:07:42 AM EST

Re: The media... (2.00 / 1)

Please find me an Obama supporter who likes Chris Matthews and/or takes him seriously.  McAuliffe is just as awful in my opinion.


by Renie on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:22:01 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: The media... (2.00 / 1)

What did Matthews "misspeak" about?


John McCain isn't evil. He's just wrong about a lot of things. Vote Obama!
by proseandpromise on Thu May 15, 2008 at 09:56:37 AM EST
[ Parent ]

With all due respect... (1.90 / 11)

A lot of commenters seem to be missing the diarist's point, if I understand it correctly.

She's not necessarily saying that the people voting for Obama are doing so because they are sexist. Rather, she's saying that many Hillary voters, such as myself, have been outraged at the blatant sexism-tinged hostility the media has shown Hillary from the outset, as well as the silence and occasional complicity of the party elite. Given all that, we're feeling a bit alienated from the party and less enthusiastic about the party's nominee.

Silence can be betrayal, as Martin Luther King pointed out.


by OrangeFur on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:09:05 AM EST

Re: With all due respect... (2.00 / 4)

I completely understand OrangeFur.  I think that, were our chosen candidates' situations reversed, I would feel similarly alienated, albeit for different reasons.

I think you'll see a big effort to re-energize Clinton's base if Obama doesn't completely f up and lose the nomination, and this effort will hopefully be headed by Hillary herself.

It's really funny because I began this primary season just happy as can be with all these great candidates, but myDD really turned me off to Clinton (as I'm sure DailyKos turned off many to Obama).  We really have to come together to keep the republicans out of the White House.  Whatever your problems with Obama (or the media's treatment of him), I'm sure that a careful self-analysis will reveal that you have much bigger problems with McCain (it goes without saying that I do).

I hope that we - and the dems as a whole - manage to forgive each other for such a passionate primaries and come together to make something special.


John McCain is surprisingly bad for this country
by minnesotaryan on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:24:03 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: With all due respect... (2.00 / 1)

yes - you summed it up perfectly as usual orange!


"Democracy! Bah! When I hear that word I reach for my feather Boa!" -- Allen Ginsberg
by canadian gal on Thu May 15, 2008 at 02:10:46 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Misdirected feelings (2.00 / 1)

You're unhappy about the media coverage? Ok.

And therefore you direct your hard feelings
towards the Obama camp and the Dem Party?
For what the media does?

Do you expect Obama and the DNC to control the
media on Hillary's behalf?


by vegemighty on Thu May 15, 2008 at 07:43:03 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Obama/Edwards happily went along with (2.00 / 1)

the October 30 MSNBC debate-o-mugging of Hillary. Questions 1, 2, and 3 were all "attack Hillary for us" softballs, so by Question 6 when both Obama and Edwards were asked to evaluate Clinton and tell Brian Williams she had lied, some anti-MSM backbone would've been real real REAL nice.

QUESTION 7

   WILLIAMS: Senator Clinton, elsewhere in the region, let's talk about Iraq. One of your military advisers, retired Lieutenant General Claudia Kennedy, while campaigning for you in New Hampshire, was recently quoted saying, quote, "I don't oppose the war. I have never heard Senator Clinton say, I oppose the war," closed quote.

   Senator Clinton, do you oppose the war in Iraq?

      [Obama asked to evaluate Clinton's response to Question 7]

   WILLIAMS: Senator Obama, was Senator Clinton's answer to the opposition of the Iraq war question consistent, in your view?

       [Edwards asked to evaluate Clinton's response to Question 7]

   WILLIAMS: Senator Edwards, same question.

       [Rebuttal for Clinton]

   WILLIAMS: Senator Clinton, 30-second rebuttal.


We can no longer afford to worship the god of hate or bow before the altar of retaliation. Martin Luther King Jr.
by fairleft on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:11:08 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Misdirected feelings (2.00 / 2)

They could have said something about it, and sent a message. But they didn't. Their silence spoke volumes on their behalf.


by OrangeFur on Thu May 15, 2008 at 02:27:34 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Seriously, (2.00 / 3)

it disgusts me that any female Democrat would use "sexism" as a reason to vote for McCain over Obama.

It makes me want to vomit.  When McCain got asked "How do we beat the bitch [Clinton]?", and we laughed along, and some other asshole wisecracked "I thought she was talking about my ex-wife," and McCain laughed some more, I was furious.  My wife is an incredibly intelligent, hard-working, dedicated person, and if she ever ran for political office, and was treated like that by her opponent, there would probably be an incident involving me storming the asshole's campaign HQ on that evening's local news.

But hey, take a dump on woman's rights, and freedom of choice, and Hillary Clinton herself (who will support Obama) --- that's your right, and no one can stop you from foolishly using that right other than yourself.


by Slim Tyranny on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:09:11 AM EST

typo: "he" not "we" in line 2 (none / 0)


by Slim Tyranny on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:10:18 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Who was it that sked? (none / 0)

 It was  Republican woman, as I recall.


by xdem on Thu May 15, 2008 at 07:41:55 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Canadian Gal (2.00 / 1)

Is part III of "how to destroy a candidate" coming soon?

I agree with the sentiment that the media has generally been more unfavorable to her than it has been with Obama; sexism may very well be the reason.  However, receiving unfair media coverage also has its benefits; it galvanizes one's supporters and also provides a candidate with the ability to adopt an "us v. them" mentality.  I'm not sure if Hillary would have been able to assume that "populist fighter" theme had she not received such distorted media coverage.


by Blazers Edge on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:11:10 AM EST

Re: Canadian Gal (2.00 / 2)

the media treatment hasnt worked out to well so far, has it? but yes - it may have made her message more populist in tone.


"Democracy! Bah! When I hear that word I reach for my feather Boa!" -- Allen Ginsberg
by canadian gal on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:47:24 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Maybe it's not the media... (2.00 / 1)

Maybe the blatant sexism and racism of the media checked itself.  Maybe the reason she is not the nominee is her failure as a candidate or Obama's success as a candidate.  There are many reasons a person loses or wins a political race.  To boil it down to sexism (which while you do not explicitly state, you definitely imply) is incorrect.  If you want a listing of the problems with her candidacy I can give it to you, but I don't think it will be helpful to either of us.  If Clinton supporters are going to reject Obama, b/c of someone else's sexism, they'll be cutting off their nose to spite their face.  These threats and the constant character assaination on this blog makes it so much harder for us to be conciliatory.  We're reaching out our hand; will you meet us half way or spurn our effort?


John McCain wants you to be poor!
by nklein on Thu May 15, 2008 at 02:48:17 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Maybe it's not the media... (2.00 / 1)

as i have said several times - this is not about her campaign, so its not implied at all.  and i am not stating a threat, but rather what i see to be the reason for this anger and stunning poll numbers.


"Democracy! Bah! When I hear that word I reach for my feather Boa!" -- Allen Ginsberg
by canadian gal on Thu May 15, 2008 at 02:51:45 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Your interpretation is wrong... (none / 0)

You're reading into poll numbers what you want to see. There was no reason given for why said voters would not vote for Obama.  Moreover, you ignore what another poster brought up about the effect of voters who said that they would vote for McCain over Obama and CLINTON.  But even if your thesis is correct how does it help anyone to list various gripes (no matter how legitimate) and insist that Clinton voters will not support Obama.  What is that but an attempt to blackmail Obama supporters into supporting Clinton?

If you are really concerned about our chances in November, why don't you offer suggestions on how we can solve this problem?  Where is the diary listing all the measures that Obama supporters should employ to demosntrate how much we want and appreciate the support of any Clinton supporters?  I would follow such advice.  I've congratulated Clinton supporters on her wins.  I've spoken out and TR'd people who were attacking her unfairly.  I've offered a hand in friendship and every time it has been spurned (not by all but by most of) Clinton supporters.  So if this is such a serious problem, please explain to us how we can correct.


John McCain wants you to be poor!
by nklein on Thu May 15, 2008 at 03:14:16 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Your interpretation is wrong... (2.00 / 1)

i really do not know how to correct it.  i guess a start would be taking the lead, as a scant few others have done here - student guy, lizard, etc and stop denying that this is happening.


"Democracy! Bah! When I hear that word I reach for my feather Boa!" -- Allen Ginsberg
by canadian gal on Thu May 15, 2008 at 03:24:25 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Who's denying that it happened? (none / 0)

You keep on throwing out that canard.  It happened.  Shuster's comment on "pimping" happened.  Chris Matthews mysogny happened.  Jack Cafferty's poor words and even worse attitude happened.  The question is what benefit do we get in delving into everytime our candidate was abused.  Racism happened in this race.  But to dwell on racism and sexism is neither positive nor productive.  Why can't you accept that there is evil in the world and work for the good?  Or else we are all doomed to more evil and more sexism and mroe racism and more death.


John McCain wants you to be poor!
by nklein on Thu May 15, 2008 at 10:21:39 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (2.00 / 4)

She lost because of Mark Penn and her staff.

B.O. had everything break perfectly for him.

Michigan and Florida breaking the rules gave him the opening

he needed. Let's be clear here. She won California, New York on

name recognition. You do those primaries today and the resulta

might be alot different. Same goes for Michigan and Florida.

She would have won those, but the states decided to break the

rules. The fact that she didn't even try to compete in 12 straight

states was all her fault. Alot of things went wrong for her but

I don't think sex had anything to do with it.

I still have no idea how she could let this slip away.


Yawn.
by spacemanspiff on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:13:44 AM EST

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (2.00 / 4)

this diary is not about HRC winning or losing - but rather how many of her supporters feel about how their candidate was mistreated.


"Democracy! Bah! When I hear that word I reach for my feather Boa!" -- Allen Ginsberg
by canadian gal on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:18:16 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (none / 0)

Well, CG, what can the democratic party do to make you feel comfortable in the party again if Obama is the nominee?  What could possibly convince you that the vast vast majority of it's members are not sexist or racist (something you can't say as definitively about the republicans, to be sure)?


John McCain is surprisingly bad for this country
by minnesotaryan on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:26:35 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (2.00 / 1)

im not sure, but take a look down thread at a small selection of BO supporters who actually are sympathetic to what has been done to HRC - thats a start.


"Democracy! Bah! When I hear that word I reach for my feather Boa!" -- Allen Ginsberg
by canadian gal on Thu May 15, 2008 at 02:12:44 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Hillary just said today not to vote for McCain (2.00 / 1)

If she does not win, the best way to honor her legacy is to listen to her wishes in this case and vote for the Democratic Candidate for President.

The SCOTUS arguement should be reason enough.


"You might well think that. I couldn't possibly comment"
by xenontab on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:14:36 AM EST

With all due respect (2.00 / 3)

Would they be complaining about how unfair it is for the election to have been cut short if as Hillary believed, Obama would have been forced out after Super Tuesday?


by highgrade on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:14:40 AM EST

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (1.75 / 8)

I believe no one---not the DNC, not the Obama hopefuls, not the media---understand how angry women are right now.  All aspects of this campaign [media, Obama supporters, all of it] have assumed that Hillary's supporters, mostly women,  can be overlooked, blasphemed, insulted, maligned---and that, miraculously, they will nevertheless forgive, forget, and fall in line.  Forget that!  I, and a staggering number of my colleagues, am done.  We're done with being doormats for ALL these creeps.


by tj in tx on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:17:36 AM EST

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (1.70 / 10)

I cannot tell you how angry it makes me to have it assumed that all women are Hillary supporters, and that any attack on her is an attack on all women.  I know many, MANY women who are supporting Barrack Obama.  I know many women who feel that Hillary's behavior this primary season was inappropriate and shameless.  I know many women who have lost all of the respect they ever had for Hillary and her family as a whole.  She was the first credible female candidate and she made a mockery of the process by disrespecting the rules, the voters of every state she failed to win, and the entire field of mathematics.  Speak for yourselves female Hillary supporters, you do NOT speak for me or the millions of other female Obama supporters out there.


by Renie on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:30:03 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (2.00 / 4)

Except for one silly woman I know who prides herself on wearing size zero clothing, every woman I've discussed this primary with has been for Clinton.

Speak for yourself when you apply the double-standard to Clinton by saying she is "inappropriate and shameless" - words that could describe Obama as easily, yet you won't hold him to that higher standard.


by Montague on Thu May 15, 2008 at 01:16:33 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (2.00 / 1)

What the heck does her clothing have to do with anything? Unless you're saying you resent her for being thinner? Or that she AND you are shallow? Or that only skinny people support Obama and skinny people are evil, so...

Oh, nevermind.


by Rationalisto on Thu May 15, 2008 at 01:51:27 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (2.00 / 2)

She's so skinny, her lattes must be nonfat!


Stop the racism. Fight the smears.
by CrazyDrumGuy on Thu May 15, 2008 at 02:12:09 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Indubitably (none / 0)


by Montague on Thu May 15, 2008 at 07:57:43 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Thank you for your deep understanding (none / 0)

She is a very shallow person.  Anyone who cares about being able to tell people she wears size zero is an idiot in my book.  Same as any guy who brags about his dick size.  

She liked Wes Clark in 2004 (which is how I got to know her) because she thought he was physically attractive and looked great in a uniform.


by Montague on Thu May 15, 2008 at 07:57:19 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Thank you for your deep understanding (none / 0)

Well, you can't argue with her there. Woof.


by Rationalisto on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:38:28 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (none / 0)

I said that many felt her BEHAVIOR was inappropriate and shameless, there is a very big difference between describing a behavior and an entire person.  I never claimed to speak for women as a whole, I spoke for women I have heard talk about this campaign.  I have a very big problem with a Democratic candidate fearmongering with 3am ads, changing the definition of a win and their position on the rules whenever they are behind, adopting Republican talking points, calling for the obliteration of Iran, going for cheap points on a gas tax, and using race as a wedge against another Democrat.  She could have been an inspiration, this historic election could have been something beautiful.  It makes me very sad that she chose to take the route she took.  I can't respect that and neither can many of the other strong and intelligent women I know.


by Renie on Thu May 15, 2008 at 02:54:01 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (1.28 / 7)

oh - in that case - then the media is giving her what she deserves.  hey everybody - you are entitled to attack and belittle because Renie is using BO talking points to criticize HRC!


"Democracy! Bah! When I hear that word I reach for my feather Boa!" -- Allen Ginsberg
by canadian gal on Thu May 15, 2008 at 02:59:04 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (2.00 / 1)

That's entirely unfair.  Renie isn't the only one who's jaw occasionally hit the floor watching Hillary Clinton campaign.  She's done a lot that she's going to have to live down back here in New York where the most reliable Democratic constituency no longer considers her an ally.


When you start out making the "slippery slope" argument, where do you draw the line?
by Jess81 on Thu May 15, 2008 at 03:03:03 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (2.00 / 1)

i am sure that you speak for yourself and....

better yet, i have no interest in debating you on this.  put your head in the sand if you want.


"Democracy! Bah! When I hear that word I reach for my feather Boa!" -- Allen Ginsberg
by canadian gal on Thu May 15, 2008 at 03:09:30 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (none / 0)

Sorry, CG.  I'm going to have to HR that for the attack on Rennie.  When I opened your comment in the Hidden Comments, I was hoping to uprate it.  It's just a little over the top in calling out the previous commenter.


by The Distillery on Thu May 15, 2008 at 03:37:08 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (2.00 / 1)

do whatever you feel you need to- she/he posted several comments here that do not address the content in the diary, but rather is using the opportunity to continue to bash HRC which i guess in a way is a favour as it is helping to illustrate my point of ignoring the problem in the mistaken disbelief that it props up her/his candidate.


"Democracy! Bah! When I hear that word I reach for my feather Boa!" -- Allen Ginsberg
by canadian gal on Thu May 15, 2008 at 03:53:59 AM EST
[ Parent ]

I understood what you were saying (2.00 / 4)

including the part about behavior, although if we behave shamelessly, are we not shameless, at least at times?

You are holding her to a different standard, as are others including the MSM, and if Hillary wishes to fight for what she wants, as any man in her position would do, she has to push back hard.  

I would find your examples more reasonable if there were more truth in them.  ALL politicians do much of what you used as examples, including (dare I say) Saint Obama.  Obama's 3am ad is to say Hillary will "force" us to buy health insurance we can't afford - poisoning the well by scaring us (thanks, dude).  Obama keeps changing the def'n of what is a win - he "won" Texas?  Repug talking points?  You mean like praising Reagan and saying Social Security is in "crisis"?  To say she used race is totally incorrect, however; Obama started that entirely on his own.

"Something beautiful"?  Excuse me?  That is a very weird comment.  Women are supposed to grace the election, make a beautiful historic statement, then bow out gracefully to the person with a Y chromosome?  As usual?

I can't tell you how often I have been undoubtedly been called bitchy behind my back for daring to disagree with men around me.  (Incidentally, I am also thought of as an extremely thoughtful and nice person.)  When I create something incredible for my community - which I've done more than once - I deserve credit for it.  When it comes to my areas of expertise and knowledge and experience, I know better than most men (and humans) around me.  But I'm not given the leeway they are - not the leeway to make errors, or to speak my mind, or to criticize the way a man has flubbed a task.  I'm sorry, but strong and intelligent women often must be very firm in this society.  We can't keep standing back just to preserve sweet feelings all around.

And so some people think I'm a bitch.  I can live with that.


by Montague on Thu May 15, 2008 at 08:10:14 AM EST
[ Parent ]

I think many women internalize (2.00 / 4)

the anti-female norm without even realizing it. They join with the men in demonizing a woman who dares an actual fight against a chosen man. I actually see this often in professional life as women join with men in calling women who excel and move up cold bitches and attributing all kinds of evil motivations to them.

It takes a lot to go against the grain and the grain is males lead. My sons declare that race and gender are meaningless to them and so it doesn't matter. I tell them it's much more ingrained than that otherwise women who outnumber men in this country would be more highly represented in higher office, CEO's, senior partners etc. but they are not.

Even my Obama supporting husband has seen the media bias. Neither of us can stomach MSNBC which we used to half enjoy as political comedy-now it feels like  locker room trash talk disguised as an actual political discussion.

What really irks if the abject failure or refusal of Obama supporters to acknowledge this bias. They will only see it when the media turns on Obama in favor of Maverick McCain.


berkshiretrueblue Commited to helping elect a Democrat as President "Hypocrisy: prejudice with a halo" Ambroise Bierce
by berkshiretrueblue on Thu May 15, 2008 at 09:22:42 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: I think many women internalize (2.00 / 1)

You are right.  Both sexism and racism are ingrained deeply.  


by Montague on Thu May 15, 2008 at 11:30:50 AM EST
[ Parent ]

I can't believe you've got such a strawman (2.00 / 5)

Stop speaking for all women.

SOME women are no doubt angry because they percieve some sexist slight.  

The percentage that see sexism in everything and the percentage that feel this way are probably pretty close to one another.

Like fanatics of any stripe, there's going to be a percentage that reason won't appeal to.

Let's not worry about outlier demographics that we can't do anything about, shall we?


You can't stop the signal.

President "That One"

by Dracomicron on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:30:38 AM EST
[ Parent ]

I think you left out a word (2.00 / 5)

some

as in how angry some women are right now.

because some women don't see what you see (namely me).  

And let me add one more thing.  You are only a doormat if you let yourself be...what a victim mentality you have, it is frankly disgusting.

I started off as a single mother in a low paid clerical position.  Now my son is 19 and I am a mid-level manager, something that normal requires a degree that I never had time to get.  I climbed up where I am through brute strength and hard work.  I respect Hillary, but that is because she doesn't let herself become the victim you want to paint her.

Hillary is better than you by a mile and Hillary is no one's victim.


accepting McLettuce is like being 9 years old and forced to eat your own cooking
by Sychotic1 on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:31:17 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: I think you left out a word (2.00 / 2)

i said supporters - not women.  and you should be proud of your achievements, but that 'victimology' you reference has absolutely nothing to do with HRC or her supporters.  but there is only so much kicking someone when they are down that some can stomach.

and to your last sentence - i couldnt agree more.


"Democracy! Bah! When I hear that word I reach for my feather Boa!" -- Allen Ginsberg
by canadian gal on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:42:18 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: I think you left out a word (2.00 / 3)

I was responding to the lady upthread...it pissed me off.

But I will add that you are somewhat pushing a victim mentality.  I think we should avoid that.  Even if Hillary were to concede tomorrow, what she has done is freaking historic.  Her whole run was trailblazing.  There is absolutely no shame in what she has accomplished, and she has done so with style.


accepting McLettuce is like being 9 years old and forced to eat your own cooking
by Sychotic1 on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:48:42 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: I think you left out a word (none / 0)

I cannot agree with you more!  Hillary is nobody's victim, which is why I admire and respect her SO MUCH!  She is so strong, so intelligent and so resilient!  It is clear there is no better candidate than Hillary in this campaign, period. It feels so ironic when Edwards listed all of her great attributes and yet endorsed someone else.  His words about BO were so much less substantive than his praises for HRC.  


by observer11 on Thu May 15, 2008 at 03:21:48 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: I think you left out a word (none / 0)

My daughter (angrily) said the same thing after watching the speech.  Yet folks have attacked Edwards for his treatment of Clinton during the speech.

I didn't see it that way.


by niksder on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:35:45 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: I think you left out a word (none / 0)

I think you didn't understand my point.  I understand the anger of some of the Hillary supporters. I felt sad because of the inherent hypocrisy in Edwards' speech.  I am not trying to put down the value of his endorsement - of course, as a firm Hillary supporter myself, I would love for him to endorse her, but you have to recognize that even though Edwards gave BO his endorsement, his praise of HRC is far more substantive than those of BO.  I still believe HRC is our strongest candidate and hI will still work hard to make her the nominee.


by observer11 on Thu May 15, 2008 at 09:12:49 PM EST
[ Parent ]

The paradox is here (2.00 / 1)

that 'victimology' you reference has absolutely nothing to do with HRC or her supporters.  but there is only so much kicking someone when they are down that some can stomach.

I think a lot of feminists are disappointed in the way that Hillary would pivot between being a fighter and victim. It was an effective tactic, and often wrong footed her competitors, but it was inconsistent, and led to suspicions of bad faith

As for the Hillary supporters you talk about, Canadian Girl. I would have had more respect for their feminism if they had applied it universally. I called on several prominent HRC supporters here to defend Michelle Obama from sexist attacks, and guess what...

They uprated several of the nastier comments

A feminism that is merely partisan is not feminism at all.


by duende on Thu May 15, 2008 at 06:40:14 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: I think you left out a word (2.00 / 4)

You are right that Hillary does not act like a victim.  She knows there is no percentage in behaving that way.  Nonetheless, she, you and all women are subject to the inequity of sexism.

Mid-level management is nice.  You probably won't get higher.  These days, women can get to a certain level - at least without a college and a postgrad degree - but no farther.  Based on your experience and abilities, you may well deserve a higher position, but there is still a glass ceiling for nearly all women.

Your son will have more opportunities in this world based on his gender than if you had had a daughter.

I don't think the person you responded to has a doormat or victim mentality.  I think she's angry, and rightly so.  I feel the very same way for ethnic minorities who know that they have been held down by inequity, but who still plow ahead and fight for respect.  It's possible to realize that you are being discriminated against and also to be strong and to get ahead on sheer determination and smarts.


by Montague on Thu May 15, 2008 at 08:17:58 AM EST
[ Parent ]

hahaha (2.00 / 3)

If you don't like being "overlooked, blasphemed, insulted, maligned", WOW will you be pissed about the results of a McCain presidency!  Good luck staying in control of your own body after that asshole is done stacking the Supreme Court and the rest of the federal bench with anti-choice white men with no respect for women or women's rights!


by Slim Tyranny on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:31:30 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (2.00 / 1)

Right, and how would African Americans be feeling right now if the tables had been ever so slightly turned?  I'm not saying that your feelings aren't legitimate (or that their feelings wouldn't be), but rather that positive change is hard and exhausting work.  Don't give up.


John McCain is surprisingly bad for this country
by minnesotaryan on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:31:57 AM EST
[ Parent ]

This is NOT a comment deserving of TR (none / 0)

People are getting ridiculous here.


by Montague on Thu May 15, 2008 at 08:11:51 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (none / 0)

Lots of women support Obama, too. In fact the majority under the age of 50 do. Stop trying to turn this into something that it isn't.

You are throwing a tantrum because your candidate lost. If Obama had lost I would probably be throwing a tantrum right now. But I would hope that, after some time had passed, someone would give me a swift kick in the butt by saying, "It's not about you, suck it up and do what's best for the country."


by Brannon on Thu May 15, 2008 at 03:44:47 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (2.00 / 2)

We're NOT going to lose the White House.... Oh, and Hillary Clinton didn't lose because of sexism.  She lost because Obama ran a better campaign and is the slightly stronger candidate.  I know plenty of feminist women who voted for Obama because they felt he was the better candidate.  To chalk Clinton's loss up to simple sexism is disingenuous. Clinton may have won come November, but Obama is going to fare even better, win with a mandate.  He's the leader of party and future of our country.  The sooner you move on from your hurt feelings, the better for our party and the better for our country, and the better for you. So snap out of it!  We need you to win in November!


by Democrat in Chicago on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:25:37 AM EST

This, more than anything, is why I fear (2.00 / 2)

this November.  

There was a time when I felt that way about a candidate.  We would win - maybe even big - and take the White House and make the country wonderful.

It doesn't work that way.  It didn't in past decades and it won't now.  Meaningful change is incremental and trudges along like the hare racing the rabbit.  It wins in the end, but it doesn't have a lovely graphic identity on the way.  It doesn't make uplifting speeches.  

Calling Obama "the future of our country" is incredibly off-putting.  You'd best stop telling lifelong Democrats to snap out of anything.  Your head is in the clouds and you WILL come crashing down to reality eventually.  Everyone does.


by Montague on Thu May 15, 2008 at 08:21:43 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (2.00 / 2)

Women's choice:

* Elect Obama, who Clinton says is very close to her, is not sexist, and supports women's causes

* John McCain, who thinks he can and should legislate their wombs

That's a tough one.


by mattw on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:25:51 AM EST

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (2.00 / 5)

Great diary, totally interesting analysis.  Women identify with her, we don't feel sympathy, we feel her pain.  And we greatly admire her courage and her ability to keep going, she's winning America, she's the real come back kid.  


what a relief
by anna shane on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:26:19 AM EST

Good job, canadian girl (2.00 / 6)

I also wrote about this topic for the last three months.
--donna darko. I don't read or respond to comments. There's too much hate and misogyny here.
by nonwhiteperson on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:28:39 AM EST

Canadian gal (2.00 / 4)

You know I support you on how the nedia has acted, but please don't be down on November yet, polling looks good.  Check out Openleft.com for an article by Chris Bowers (the wonky guy) about 6 macrotrends going against the republicans.

Also lets see how this all plays out...
It is too early to cry doom as in June of 2000 51% of McCain supporters said they'd vote for Gore.  They came home, I am not saying it will be easy or a fun choice for Clinton supporters to make, but based on policies a good number of them will come home.

And about the republican 527 whose name i won't say...

The founder of that group should:
be tarred and feathered
beated with socks full of raw onions
whipped with towels by drunken frat boys
have rocks slung at his groin and thyroid (very painful to get hit in the thyroid)
suffer a million papercuts on his tongue
have tiny specks of rubber forced into his skin
be infected with Ebola Zaire

That is close to a fitting punishment...


Student Guy=JoeMentum. No really Student Guy=JoeMentum, after all JoeMentum was an embarrassment so is Student Guy. This sig is FAIL!!
by Student Guy on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:31:06 AM EST

Re: Canadian gal (2.00 / 3)

your posts always make me smile, and you know whats interesting, you are one of the few BO supporters who actaully does not silently stand by and accpet what is being done - if everyone took your lead i suspect that this problem would not exist.


"Democracy! Bah! When I hear that word I reach for my feather Boa!" -- Allen Ginsberg
by canadian gal on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:37:52 AM EST
[ Parent ]

I try to be rational (2.00 / 2)

Just because I don't prefer Hillary for President doesn't mean that I think that sexism is okay.
I blame primary insanity for most peoples off the wallness right now.  After all people are arguing that Obama isn't pro-choice or that he is too pro-choice over in another thread.  And the Clinton hate I see is astonishing.  I bashed her policies (like the gas tax) when I disagree with them, but she is a solid democrat who deserves respect from us.

And too many Obama supporters don't see that if we don't cry havok over crap like the 527 you mentioned (I could not bring myself to say that word, I'd vote for McCain first, and if you saw physcodrew's diary last night a lot of things would happen before I voted for McCain) that It will disaffect some females causing them not to support the party when a 527 like No Elitists Rude Gaffe-prone Obama froms.  As lefties/liberals/progressives we have to stand together or the republicans win.  It is like Carville said back in NH in 1992.  "If we can defeat it [republican tactics] this time we can make it go away"  They haven't tried to do any infidelity strategies since if we can stop them over using identity (anyone's identity) we remove a tool from the tool box and their tool box is looking sparse.


Student Guy=JoeMentum. No really Student Guy=JoeMentum, after all JoeMentum was an embarrassment so is Student Guy. This sig is FAIL!!
by Student Guy on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:50:05 AM EST
[ Parent ]

it would appear that the student.... (2.00 / 3)

should become the teacher!


"Democracy! Bah! When I hear that word I reach for my feather Boa!" -- Allen Ginsberg
by canadian gal on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:53:42 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: I try to be rational (2.00 / 2)

But you also have to accept that many MANY people who do not support Clinton do so because they despise her tactics, lack of principals, and her identity politics. This isn't sexism. In fact, I'd argue that it's the opposite of sexism. The flaws we see in Clinton aren't gender-related; they are human-related.

And on a personal note, I've said on this blog several times that I'm a 47-year-old gay man who grew up in the South. I've experienced bigotry in many forms over the last 35 years. But one thing I've learned is that sometimes--just sometimes--people hate me just because I'm me. Nothing to do with my being gay.

This is easy to forget and very tough to deal with. But it's true. Sometimes, there is no -ism.


by Rationalisto on Thu May 15, 2008 at 02:05:04 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: I try to be rational (2.00 / 1)

your comment is valid and fair.  but again - if people want to denying this is going on, please feel free to do so.  i am merely pointing out what MANY are feeling.  i suspect if you take examine this from a non-partisan outlook, you may change your mind.


"Democracy! Bah! When I hear that word I reach for my feather Boa!" -- Allen Ginsberg
by canadian gal on Thu May 15, 2008 at 02:09:23 AM EST
[ Parent ]

as a former drunken frat boy, (2.00 / 4)

I volunteer to help out in said towel-whipping


by Slim Tyranny on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:38:47 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: as a former drunken frat boy, (2.00 / 2)

i think it would help!  seriously - chirs matthews first, okay?


"Democracy! Bah! When I hear that word I reach for my feather Boa!" -- Allen Ginsberg
by canadian gal on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:43:51 AM EST
[ Parent ]

YES! (2.00 / 3)

He's the worst, I hate the smirk on his face when he starts in with his sexist "Hillary the Emasculator" routines.  Such a scumbag.


by Slim Tyranny on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:45:52 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Yeah (none / 0)

i still respect Olbermann (for examples of why see his special comment tonight on Bush) [though not as much as I used too], but Matthews is a hack.

i actually hope he tries for Senate in PA in 2010 so I can contribute to and phonebank for his opponent.  After all Matthews is person number one in McCain's base, but I think the guy who founded the 527 you mentioned deserves to be subjected to this ahead of Matthews, but not by a huge margin.


Student Guy=JoeMentum. No really Student Guy=JoeMentum, after all JoeMentum was an embarrassment so is Student Guy. This sig is FAIL!!
by Student Guy on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:53:08 AM EST
[ Parent ]

the only reason.... (2.00 / 2)

you are not getting mojo for that comment is because you complimented KO.


"Democracy! Bah! When I hear that word I reach for my feather Boa!" -- Allen Ginsberg
by canadian gal on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:55:18 AM EST
[ Parent ]

I know you have a different view of him than I do (none / 0)

but I think the good he has done in the past and continues to do (like him ripping Bush an orifice tonight that is not known to medical science [I am a med student so I know about the orifices of the human body]) outweigh his recent sexism.  I can understand how you can have a different opinion on that as I am a guy and it is harder for me than you to see his sexism.

Wnat to hear some positive news though females outnumber males in my medical school class, and we have had pretty close to a 50-50 spluit on professors (however more of the course cooridinators were male).  I hope the second part cheers you up a bit.


Student Guy=JoeMentum. No really Student Guy=JoeMentum, after all JoeMentum was an embarrassment so is Student Guy. This sig is FAIL!!
by Student Guy on Thu May 15, 2008 at 01:02:19 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: I know you have a different view of him than I (2.00 / 2)

it does!


"Democracy! Bah! When I hear that word I reach for my feather Boa!" -- Allen Ginsberg
by canadian gal on Thu May 15, 2008 at 01:05:47 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Canadian gal (none / 0)

SG - You're my buddy but please don't ever cite openleft.com. They actually do proffer unmitigated sexists and elitist trash, IMHO, of course.
by Jeter on Thu May 15, 2008 at 05:11:51 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Notice I didn't link... (none / 0)

I haven't found the same focus elsewhere so to get the point I wanted to make I had to use that site, however I didn't link there and probably won't for a very long time, I actually found the article by googling macrotrends agaisnt the republicans...


Student Guy=JoeMentum. No really Student Guy=JoeMentum, after all JoeMentum was an embarrassment so is Student Guy. This sig is FAIL!!
by Student Guy on Thu May 15, 2008 at 01:48:48 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Voting against Obama (2.00 / 0)

because of sexism from "the media, party establishment and some BO supporters"?  None of those people are Obama.  Why would someone vote against A to punish B?

Give women more credit than that.


by JJE on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:32:01 AM EST

Re: Voting against Obama (2.00 / 2)

Also please give women credit for not voting for Obama because they believe he's a bad choice for the presidency.


by Montague on Thu May 15, 2008 at 08:23:00 AM EST
[ Parent ]

But that's not what this diary is about (none / 0)

I think we're all happy to concede that reasoning, but this diary is about people not voting for Obama because they think he's sexist.


You can't stop the signal.

President "That One"

by Dracomicron on Thu May 15, 2008 at 09:21:49 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: But that's not what this diary is about (2.00 / 1)

clearly you didnt understand the diary.


"Democracy! Bah! When I hear that word I reach for my feather Boa!" -- Allen Ginsberg
by canadian gal on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:23:57 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Voting against Obama (none / 0)

And because McCain would be better?

Or you would rather have 4 years of McCain so that we uppity Obama supporters "learn our lesson"?

It's got to be one or the other, which is it?


by Brannon on Thu May 15, 2008 at 03:55:23 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Voting against Obama (2.00 / 1)

If I had a dollar for every time I've heard this argument over the years, I could buy a house next door to Obama in Hyde Park.

No, it does NOT have to be one or the other.

I have never called you or other Obama supporters "uppity."  You definitely have lessons to learn if you think this is the way to lure people to support your side - "My way or the highway" doesn't impress or frighten me.

Four years of McCain doesn't scare me.  The Congress will be in Democratic hands.  Balance of power.  We'll survive.  Congress pushed back against Bush on Social Security.  But if it's Obama saying SS is in "crisis," Democrats might waver and then harm one of the best programs ever created by the United States government.


by Montague on Fri May 16, 2008 at 01:11:52 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Voting against Obama (none / 0)

Yeah, what if McCain says SS is in crisis--you know, like he does all the time?

http://www.ontheissues.org/Economic/John _McCain_Social_Security.htm

You are the one saying "My way or the highway", not us (I would happily pull the lever for Hillary if she was the nominee). Rather than make a pragmatic choice of the lesser of two evils, you'd rather let McCain be president and risk (among other things) SS.

Your argument is unimpressive. You are adopting the posture of a mature and reasoned dissident--but your position strikes me as childish since you are doing a disservice to your stated cause.

You may very well be successful at your unstated cause--which is to teach us whipper-snappers a lesson. Will that be worth it?


by Brannon on Sat May 17, 2008 at 09:30:44 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Voting against Obama (none / 0)

Talking out of both sides of your mouth, my friend.  You said it's got to be one or the other in your earlier post.  Either stick with what you said, or embrace your inconsistency.


by Montague on Sat May 17, 2008 at 02:14:14 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (2.00 / 1)

Oy vey.

Enough of this.


by BlueGAinDC on Thu May 15, 2008 at 01:04:11 AM EST

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (2.00 / 1)

You can't take the IN exit polls in the way you are doing. 10% of voters in the IN primary said that they voted for Clinton in the primary, and that they would vote for McCain in the GE against either Clinton or Obama. Obama's poor ability to hold onto Clinton supporters in the GE comes from this group. Without them, he does as well as Clinton does holding Obama supporters.

In NC, 7% of voters were Clinton voters who would vote for McCain over Clinton in the GE. If we remove them from people who would vote for McCain over Obama, we again get a perfectly normal ability to hold Clinton supporters.

The poll highlighted on the front page showed Obama losing 2% of women to the undecided category compared to Clinton. These would be the women you are talking about (although it will also include women for whom race is the most important criteria). That isn't zero, but it isn't a big number either. It seems that the vast majority of women are actually able to value their own (and their country's) best interests above ire at sexist media, and to vote for the candidate who is best for the country, rather than refusing to vote or voting for Evil because the better candidate won against a woman in the primary.


by letterc on Thu May 15, 2008 at 01:10:38 AM EST

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (2.00 / 2)

the wv numbers are even higher.


"Democracy! Bah! When I hear that word I reach for my feather Boa!" -- Allen Ginsberg
by canadian gal on Thu May 15, 2008 at 01:12:44 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (2.00 / 0)

And I'm sure it was all motivated by anger over media sexism, I hear that is a critical issue to WV voters.

That isn't a rebuttal to my point about using the NC and IN exit polls in the way you are.


by letterc on Thu May 15, 2008 at 01:51:46 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (2.00 / 1)

please lets not go there - we both agree from exit polls that increasingly HRC supporters are saying this.


"Democracy! Bah! When I hear that word I reach for my feather Boa!" -- Allen Ginsberg
by canadian gal on Thu May 15, 2008 at 02:05:30 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (2.00 / 0)

No, we don't agree.

I don't think that you can take NC and IN, where Obama did a typical job of holding Dems against McCain once we remove solid McCain supporters and WV, where there is clearly some serious animus against Obama, and draw a trend line. WV is not IN is not NC.


by letterc on Thu May 15, 2008 at 02:13:39 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (2.00 / 1)

Also, it is disingenuous to claim that WV results prove your point, as though everyone in the WV Dem primary who would vote for McCain over Obama would do so because they are angry at media sexism.

Neither of us know why they would vote for McCain over Obama. I'm doubting media sexism is incredibly high on the list of reasons, you are claiming it is the main reason. Color me unconvinced.


by letterc on Thu May 15, 2008 at 02:17:32 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (2.00 / 1)

look, i have no interest in arguing with you on a point that has been clear since super tuesday from EVERY exit poll.  the last 3 contests reflect this trend in an alarming numbers.  there may be other reasons contributing to this as well, but if you want to look back at the contests before, please feel free.


"Democracy! Bah! When I hear that word I reach for my feather Boa!" -- Allen Ginsberg
by canadian gal on Thu May 15, 2008 at 02:22:08 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (none / 0)

I actually think that she would have won this if she had chosen to campaign without Bill and without the leftovers of his campaign staff and the old Clinton bunch.  He did a huge amount to undermine her campaign and his legacy is such a mixed bag, it became hers, and her foundation is really something very different, much more progressive, much more interesting.

I would have found her an infinitely more appealing candidate as Hillary Rodham, minus the baggage and the advisors, and the foot-in-mouth spouse who is not really half the person she is.


by mady on Thu May 15, 2008 at 01:17:45 AM EST

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (2.00 / 1)

Completely agree, but the good result of this campaign is that she is now out of Bill's shadow, a formidable politician in her own right. I think she's got a bright future ditching the DLC triangulation stuff


by duende on Thu May 15, 2008 at 06:42:56 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Completely on target (2.00 / 3)

and I notice not one of the obamapeople have commented on this terrible poster, nor given "sexism" any credence at all.  Even the women...is this self hatred, to think that the blatant sexism is not a factor?

And of course these people say, "oh, if Obama lost it would be about racism".  No, it is Obama people that will blame Americans for not voting for Obama because of racism, just like they are doing that now in discounting the WV win.

No, the women will just quietly not vote, vote McCain, or otherwise just disappear. And yes, with 51% of the population, that just might cost the election.  

(And no, women will not be bullied into being afraid of McCain when the dems will have the house and senate with wide margins.)


by 4justice on Thu May 15, 2008 at 01:18:10 AM EST

4justice you missed me (2.00 / 1)

I said that I agree with canadian gal on the media.  I also slammed the founder of the pac whose name I can not say pretty decently (Ebola Zaire is really a really nasty hemorrhagic fever with a 90% fatality rate.

There are a few of us who see what the media hath wrought and what a steaming pile of fail it is...


Student Guy=JoeMentum. No really Student Guy=JoeMentum, after all JoeMentum was an embarrassment so is Student Guy. This sig is FAIL!!
by Student Guy on Thu May 15, 2008 at 01:46:20 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Completely on target (none / 0)

The terrible poster is from a right-wing anti-Clinton 526. It doesn't actually fit with what canadian gal is saying. Certainly, it is disgusting and idiotic, but it wasn't created by "the media," and I've never heard of any major media treating it favorably.

I give sexism credence (hey, I don't even feel a need to scare-quote it), and I agree with canadian girl when she posts examples of media sexism. Here, while she does give examples of media sexism, her main argument is that media sexism will lead to women voting against Obama in the GE. Her support for this is very thin, and I think she is over-reading it. That I think that women will support Obama in the GE by about the same margin they would have supported Clinton doesn't have anything to do with my views on media sexism.


by letterc on Thu May 15, 2008 at 01:58:01 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Completely on target (2.00 / 1)

No, the women will just quietly not vote, vote McCain, or otherwise just disappear.

Nice to know that you speak for all the women in the country.

Fortunately, I think most of them are smarter than you give them credit for.


by Angry White Democrat on Thu May 15, 2008 at 02:15:10 AM EST
[ Parent ]

It's not you.... it's them! (1.00 / 4)

They did this to you!
In Germany it was the Jews.
For Lou Dobbs and his followers it is the Mexicans. Or immigrants.
To whites they said it was the blacks and the communists.
To blacks they said it was the whites.

Sometimes it is true, and there have been dark days in our history where it was true for women and blacks.  And in pockets it is still true.
But in this race, the biggest promoter of sexism was Hillary Clinton.  And the biggest reason why she failed was the Clinton campaign.  You can assign blame anywhere you like, it doesn't change the truth, and when you are wrong, you add to the problem, because if you can not identify what it is and the cause, then you can't fix it.
Keep beating your chest and being self destructive in your anger, I am sure that will make the world a better place.

Sexism probably cost Hillary Clinton the race, the problem is it was her own.   And since Hillary tried to fool women into thinking her campaign was a referendum on women.  She has the people that bought into it believing the rejection of Hillary Clinton was a rejection of women.  


Victorious warriors win first and then go to war, while defeated warriors go to war first and then seek to win. ~ Sun Tzu
by Tumult on Thu May 15, 2008 at 02:56:58 AM EST

Sexism won this Primary (2.00 / 1)

Have you noticed that they go on and on and get some poor smuck on TV claiming they wouldn't vote for a black President but have you once seen the question asked of would they support a woman for President, did sex influence your vote for President?

The fact that NARAL endorsed Barack Obama is one hell of a slap in the face today as well.  


NoSlaves.com | The Economic Populist
by Robert Oak on Thu May 15, 2008 at 03:27:11 AM EST

Re: Sexism won this Primary (2.00 / 1)

Yes.  I have seen on television and heard on the radio, men interviewed who said they would not vote for a woman.


by Susan in Oregon on Thu May 15, 2008 at 03:29:49 AM EST
[ Parent ]

haven't seen it once (2.00 / 1)

Not a one on the cable news.


NoSlaves.com | The Economic Populist
by Robert Oak on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:06:48 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: haven't seen it once (2.00 / 2)

We are fortunate in that we don't have cable television.  I saw it on an ABC man-on-the-street piece, and also heard it on NPR a couple days before the Indiana primary.  They were covering a nearly all white town in Indiana with a very racist reputation.  The guy they talked to said he wouldn't vote for McCain because he didn't think he was different enough from Bush, and he'd never vote for a woman... so that ol' racist fella was quite bemused by the fact that he'd probably end up voting for a black man.

John Lennon nailed it:  Woman is the nigger of the world.


by Susan in Oregon on Thu May 15, 2008 at 04:05:15 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (2.00 / 3)

I hear what the diarist is talking about all the time.  I have heard many, many women who are Clinton supporters say they will not vote for Obama, and a few that say they will vote for McCain.

I don't mean to tip off another cascade of "what are they, idiots???"  I'm just saying that the phenomenon does exist.  I hear it all the time.

Now, I too will not vote for Obama because my state will go blue in the general election easily, so my vote doesn't matter.  He is not someone I feel particularly positive about, and so I'd rather not vote for him if I have a choice.  I do have that luxury because my state's electoral votes will go to the Democrat regardless.  If I lived somewhere my vote might matter, then I'd hold my nose and just do it.  God knows I've had to do that many times in my life, and it's fine.  It just has to be done.

But yeah... that sentiment is out there.  I wouldn't call these women lunatics, they just feel like this whole Hillary bash-fest is that last straw.  I think some of them will soften, especially when Clinton urges them to, but there are some that most definitely won't... because it's not just about Clinton, it's a reflection of the crap they've had to deal with their whole lives.  They're mad as hell and they're not going to take it anymore.  Make sense?  To some it will, to others it won't -- but it's a real thing.


by Susan in Oregon on Thu May 15, 2008 at 03:28:13 AM EST

Sexism ??? (2.00 / 1)

But, but, but,
it was Hillary who started making all these kitchen references ??????
by hebi on Thu May 15, 2008 at 05:00:12 AM EST

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (2.00 / 1)

Thanks for a primary worth of great posts and comraderie, CanadianGal.Thank You to the very thoughtful and wonderful Obama supporters who have also endured the pain of the foolishness of a few vocal and stupid people who say and maybe do support Obama but have some serious issues. No one can conceivably say that Obama has not and does not face the prospect of ongoing racism against Blacks. It's different than racism against other groups but no less institutionalized and ugly and damaging.

Sadly, many people who have posted are the same nasty people who will not entertain the fact that Hillary Clinton has ever received any type of bad treatment. It's always countered by the magnificence of Obama's campaign and tactics. I would love to call a few of you out but the toxicity is too great to expose good Democrats who will support whatever nominee is chosen for President, and every other race. Never run up to an angry or crazy person and shout and expect anything but more shouting. It's time for the fake Obama supporters that cause all the dustups just to get lost. I've lost patience with them, not Obama or Clinton or the Democratic Party - all of whom have made some pretty bad mistakes and said some lame things, but none of whom even come close to the rabid fetid rectal spewing of just about every Republican I've encountered during this primary, and my life for that matter.Call me a bigoted partisan but I have never advocated harming or becoming violent over who someone supports for any election. But these people do, and have against women, gays, Blacks, Hispanics, etc. for my entire life. Intercourse John McCain.

John McCain is the ultimate lying through his teeth panderer. The only maverick thing about him is that he hasn't been caught sexually abusing a young man or women. Vulgar statement, yes. True? Yes. Just listen to the woman and say you hear her and will work to be the best person you can. Isn't that all we can ask of anyone? If ego is getting in the way, the claim of sexism is probably accurate or at least close enough to warrant introspection. Just do it offline if you need to.


by Jeter on Thu May 15, 2008 at 05:33:07 AM EST

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (1.80 / 5)

agreed with one modification: damage cannot be undone before November.
obama is a real divider and democrats in the trap now, as WV did show. supers, edwards, pundits and the like keep saying to voters it is over and voters saying NO, we want Hillary.
Democratic leadership has no understanding and explanation why Obama lost ALL counties in WV and why he got only quarter of the democratic votes in state, which a must for a democratic nominee since 1916? Voters sent very clear and loud message and and democrats want to ignore it - price will follow.
Landslide of lies
by engels on Thu May 15, 2008 at 06:42:55 AM EST

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (none / 0)

Certainly not.

It's too late.  He blew it and the party blew it.


by bellarose on Thu May 15, 2008 at 07:46:41 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (none / 0)

"deny AA their first president"

Up thread Jessie88 made that statement. It is my opinion that Obama is running for POTUS. While I understand the sentiment, it could be considered as divisive as the statement Jesse Jackson, Jr. made as he said, "do you want to be the one to deny the first black man his chance at the Presidency." Very inadvisable statement.


"The Bumble Bee flies because it thinks it can."
by LadyEagle on Thu May 15, 2008 at 07:03:23 AM EST

I agree with you to a point. (none / 0)

I think sexism is hurting this election process, but I believe it is the historic sexism to Hillary supporters.

I don't really believe that sexism has been a big factor in this race. You're really good at finding offensive ads like the one's attached to this diary, but you probably just gave the group twice the exposure they'd get otherwise, and there's just as much, if not more racism in this campaign, so I tend to think they cancel out.

What is happening, I think, is that many women have invested in Hillary Clinton every hope and dream of womankind, and conversely assigned to Obama every dirty sexist slight from the long history of sexism in their lives. Neither of those is right or correct. Both are understandable.

What has been forgotten, to an extent, in the process, is that Hillary is a human, a politician, a candidate, and not a perfect one. She's lost this race not due to sexism, but because she didn't compete well enough to win, and because many people didn't think she'd make the better President. We can disagree with them, but it's wrong to automatically assign them sexist motives.

Which is not to say that there aren't a lot of sexists in this country. My wife and I joked yesterday about John Edwards' 7% in West Virginia, that faced with the choice between a woman or a black man some voters had to find a white male to vote for or their heads would explode.

Hillary has shattered the highest glass ceiling in the land. No one of sound mind believes any longer that a woman cannot be President. Hillary's coattails are more important than how many lower ticket races she could have maybe brought along with her. Hillary's coattails are the many women who will now be swept into congress, and governorships, and state legislatures because those who could never see in their mind a woman in the White House now can. This includes the next woman, already probably waiting in the wings, who will run for President, and win, not because she's a woman, but because she's the right candidate.


Your old role is rapidly aging. Please get out of the new one if you can't lend a hand, for the times they are a changing.
by Travis Stark on Thu May 15, 2008 at 07:21:21 AM EST

Re: I agree with you to a point. (none / 0)

Travis, confirmation bias...look it up


by gorgias on Thu May 15, 2008 at 10:07:05 AM EST
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Re: I agree with you to a point. (none / 0)

Yes. That's it I think.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Confirmatio n_bias


Your old role is rapidly aging. Please get out of the new one if you can't lend a hand, for the times they are a changing.
by Travis Stark on Thu May 15, 2008 at 11:16:52 AM EST
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And why it won't (shouldn't?) cost us the W.H. (none / 0)

Having commented on the sexism part of your diary, I also have a viewpoint on the "losing the White House" concept, and since I'm apparently chatty over my Cheerios this morning, I'll weight in.

I think to think that because Hillary is not the nominee we'll lose the White House is to sell women incredibly short. Yes, there will be disappointment, hurt, anger, even resentment, but then they'll look at things in the cold light of some new day (hopefully before November).

On the one hand we've got Barack Obama, whose one great fault for many may be that he's male, but whose policies are at least very close to Hillary's, is not almost identical.

On the other hand we have John McCain:

  • Calls his wife a c**t in public
  • Cheated on his first wife and married the trophy bride
  • Whose militant stance may just lead to a draft of our sons and daughters
  • Who is anti-choice and likely to nominate at least 2 Supreme Court justices and countless lower court appointees.
  • Who differs with Democratic principles, and with the principles of both Clinton and Obama, on almost everything.

Isn't there a kind of perverse sexism in thinking that women are stupid? That they put their own personal feelings above the good of the country and our children and grandchildren? I don't sell women short. I know that in the end their patriotism (yes, that's not just a word co-opted by Republicans) will outweigh their hurt feelings. Don't you think so?


Your old role is rapidly aging. Please get out of the new one if you can't lend a hand, for the times they are a changing.
by Travis Stark on Thu May 15, 2008 at 07:51:30 AM EST

Sorry for the typos. (none / 0)

Must learn to proofread.


Your old role is rapidly aging. Please get out of the new one if you can't lend a hand, for the times they are a changing.
by Travis Stark on Thu May 15, 2008 at 07:53:14 AM EST
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Re: Sorry for the typos. (none / 0)

McCain called his wife "cunt" in public?  Or even in private?  Sometimes I'm really glad that I pay no attention to what's going on in Rethug-Land.


by Montague on Thu May 15, 2008 at 08:24:09 AM EST
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Ya. Apparently she commented on his hair. (none / 0)

This was a while back. He was at some event and she twirled his hair and commented it was thinning. He responded, "At least I don't plaster on the makeup like a trollop, you cunt."

Lovely man.


Your old role is rapidly aging. Please get out of the new one if you can't lend a hand, for the times they are a changing.
by Travis Stark on Thu May 15, 2008 at 08:32:26 AM EST
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Oh. Forgot. Here's a link. (none / 0)

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2008/04/07 /report-mccains-profane-ti_n_95429.html


Your old role is rapidly aging. Please get out of the new one if you can't lend a hand, for the times they are a changing.
by Travis Stark on Thu May 15, 2008 at 08:33:04 AM EST
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Re: Ya. Apparently she commented on his hair. (none / 0)

Good lordy.  What a classy couple.

Anyway, I've always said nothing in the world could induce me to vote for McCain.  I may be pissed at Obama (and I am), but I will never vote for McCain.  Ever.


by Montague on Thu May 15, 2008 at 11:32:41 AM EST
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It's more than hurt feelings (none / 0)

It's anger, along with being appalled at the half a health care plan, which hurts women more, since they are more likely to have jobs that don't give health care insurance.

In fact, talk about "hurt feelings" implies it's a small thing, rather than a life and death thing, which misogyny is.


by splashy on Fri May 16, 2008 at 06:26:14 PM EST
[ Parent ]

The pile on of male 'also-rans' (2.00 / 2)

for President against Clinton is truly astounding and has many, many women furious - Kerry, Dodd, McGovern, Edwards, Kennedy, Richardson, and probably Carter.  Look at the list of WH losers!  

Who knew how much sexism was lurking within the party itself?  These guys must be TERRIFIED of HRC, so scared that she is the real talent for the White House, something they each botched in their own clumsy way, that they have to go after her in a pack.

Please keep posting about this issue.  Edwards' late breaking endorsement the day after Clinton cleaned Obama's clock in West Virginia looked like the most cowardly move of them all.  

Women are furious at the way the party is treating her!


by Molee on Thu May 15, 2008 at 08:32:18 AM EST

I'm betting you don't even see what you're doing. (none / 0)

I'm betting you don't even see what you're doing here. You represent an interesting psychology in this race. You leave no room for a male to have an independent judgment. Any male who decides differently than you and is not for Hillary is automatically doing it based upon sexism.

The best I can guess is that you believe in your candidate so much and so strongly that you cannot imagine anyone who looks objectively at her to be able to vote against her, and consequently men who vote against her are automatically doing so based upon gender, and women who vote against her are traitors to their gender I'd guess.

In every political race in the history of mankind people have had differing opinions as to the suitability of competing candidates for office, but not in this race. In this race, apparently, in you world, everyone starts out with the "fact" that Hillary would make the best President, and then if one doesn't vote for her it has to be her gender.


Your old role is rapidly aging. Please get out of the new one if you can't lend a hand, for the times they are a changing.
by Travis Stark on Thu May 15, 2008 at 08:43:01 AM EST
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Re: The pile on of male 'also-rans' (none / 0)

How dare voters vote for someone other than Hillary!  Especially the majority of women under 65 who have voted for Obama!


We care about politics because we know politics matters for people's lives and opportunities.
by politicsmatters on Thu May 15, 2008 at 08:44:08 AM EST
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Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (none / 0)

Hell hath no fury like feminists who didn't get their way.


It's time to restore balance and fairness to our economy,... It's time to stop giving tax cuts to corporations that ship jobs overseas... - Barack Obama
by Lefty Coaster on Thu May 15, 2008 at 08:49:48 AM EST

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (none / 0)

you argument hinges on this belief of yours:

"I believe, amongst other things, that these polls reflect a genuine inconsolable anger at the sexism bestowed onto HRC from the media, party establishment and some BO supporters."

there's no way to know this or gauge this without polling data. the mydd echo chamber, or even lefty blog echo chamber, is simply not enough.

besides, this argument doesn't speak very well for the women who feel this "genuine inconsolable anger," because it would mean that they can't separate anger the media, party establishment, and bo supporters from their reaction to obama himself. an inability to do so is serious emotional and rational failing. i think it's offensive to believe that women can't do this. and, well, i believe your analysis is just wrong, and we'll see that in the general.


by j cantarella on Thu May 15, 2008 at 08:57:09 AM EST

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (none / 0)

Hillary lost the nomination in 2002 when she put her presidential ambitions over the lives of American Service members, and voted for the Iraq war.


It's time to restore balance and fairness to our economy,... It's time to stop giving tax cuts to corporations that ship jobs overseas... - Barack Obama
by Lefty Coaster on Thu May 15, 2008 at 08:57:25 AM EST

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (2.00 / 1)

Well, one good thing about this post is that is proves (again) two things that have been dreadfully obvious for a long time: (1) Hillary supporters are not contained in their support by things like logic and common sense; and (2) MyDD remains bizzaro-world.

For those who did not take Logic in college, it is a logical fallacy to assume the truth of the proposition you seek to prove.  Ergo, when Canadian Gal states: "As we all know, based on BO's current coalition, it would be impossible for him to carry the votes needed to win the presidential nomination without getting most, if not all of HRC's supporters." --she is being illogical.  

In fact, we don't "all know" this.  And, in fact, this premise is the proposition you need to prove in order to make the argument that sexism will "deny" Obama the White House.  

I'll take sexist over stupid any day.  


by denis diderot on Thu May 15, 2008 at 09:03:37 AM EST

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The only sexism I see here is women who are so vehemently anti-Obama because he's a man who beat  a women candidate. (fair and square I might add)

Stop polarizing people, I would never vote for Clinton, not because she's a women, but because she's untrustworthy and a liar. Just like her husband I might add.

As a parent to two young girls, I hope the first women president (and it will happen soon) is someone with more character and stronger ethics.


by Matin08701 on Thu May 15, 2008 at 09:14:53 AM EST

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If that's the only sexism you see you should look  up the definition of confirmation bias..I've given up on expecting any objectivity.  People seem to only be able to interpret information to their own liking..sad and scary at the same time


by gorgias on Thu May 15, 2008 at 09:58:00 AM EST
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Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (none / 0)

Perhaps you should take your own advice re:confirmation bias???????

I'll gladly debate point by point if you'd like to raise these incidents of mass overt sexism...

Make note, I'm well aware of cases by fringe elements and some of the kiddie Obama supporters, but I fail to see how this should bring down Obama in anyway (or even the MSM, who despite the Clinton campaigns insistence has only done what they always do, attack the front runner and prop up the underdog)


by Matin08701 on Thu May 15, 2008 at 11:21:41 AM EST
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Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (none / 0)

Do you think we've seen 1% of the sexism we'd have seen from the right in a Hillary/McCain race?

Sure, Rush Hannity, O'Reilly, Savage are now the woman's friend- please give them the White House.


by wrb on Thu May 15, 2008 at 09:21:05 AM EST

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (none / 0)

A large percentage of Clinton supporters that wont supporter Obama if he's the nominee, also wont support Hillary if she's the nominee.  The exit polls show that too.  Many of these voters can't stand Hillary, but just want to Obama because they fear Obama is a muslim.  A lot of Hillary supporters are also part of Rush Limbaugh's operation chaos.


by greenboy on Thu May 15, 2008 at 09:23:03 AM EST

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (none / 0)

"How do we beat the bitch/"

And McCain laughed


by wrb on Thu May 15, 2008 at 09:31:32 AM EST

True But (none / 0)

The media will treat a Republican woman differently. That's one reason why Republicans would be wise to choose a woman on the national ticket.

This is a world wide phenomenon. Conservative women like Margaret Thatcher are treated with more respect than progressive women. If McCain picks Condoleeza Rice or Kay Bailey Hutchinson as his running mate, he may be able to pull off a big upset victory in Novemeber. (I still do think that the Democrats have to be highly favored to win the WH in November)


Dizzy Zzyzzy
by Zzyzzy on Thu May 15, 2008 at 09:54:48 AM EST

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (2.00 / 2)

I have been saying for months to anyone who would listen to me (and my poor husband has been very patient) that "we are watching the media destroy the first woman running for President of the United States."  This entire episode will become infamous in the history of women's rights in America.


by AC on Thu May 15, 2008 at 10:03:57 AM EST

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (none / 0)

The same media that pronounced her inevitable?

We're also watching the first viable (and that's what you meant because Hillary Clinton is the fifth woman to run for President) African American running for President.  That's kind of a big deal.


by Jordache on Thu May 15, 2008 at 10:53:14 AM EST
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You need to watch the Daily Show (none / 0)

They had clips of  W Va white WOMEN who said they could not trust Obama because he was MUSLIM, black, and whatever reason they could come up with.

You want to bring up sexism, fine. It does exist. And Hillary has certainly been a victim of it though it has been offset by her powerful incumbency style network of friends thanks to her days with Bill and some of her own.

And can you guarantee a Hillary win in the GE? You do realize republican shills have been holding back their attacks on Hillary until the GE campaign? All that attack bullshit she went through was as First Lady. Watch her get demolished over the Iraq issue which would force her to give McCain a free pass on the issue at some point.


by Pravin on Thu May 15, 2008 at 10:49:15 AM EST

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (none / 0)

Why insistence that every single thing that doesn't go your way, or disagrees with you is sexist may have diminished the voices of honest people who believe in equality under the law.  Now that would be an interesting diary.

I'm not saying that there hasn't been lots of sexism and racism in this nomination contest, but...

There used to be (and to a degree still is) this tendency on the part of some on the left (and I myself am far left) to label all things conservative as fascist.  Now neoconservatism comes along and is truly virulently fascist, but if you say so everyone else goes: "Yeah, yeah, yeah, everything is fascist.  We know.  Get a job hippie."

This tendency that we're seeing to split along racial and gender lines in our voting pattern suggests more self interest than true belief that neither attribute should be a factor in our decisions about a person.  That's disappointing.  The tendency on the part of some (some not all) to struggle mightily to find racism or sexism where it isn't is damaging to the cause of equality.


Government derives its power from those that it governs.
by lockewasright on Thu May 15, 2008 at 11:21:05 AM EST

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (none / 0)

To be clear, I am not accusing the diarist of any such thing.  We disagree in our candidate of choice, but I have to say that she has been honorable and honest for as long as I have been reading her diaries.


Government derives its power from those that it governs.
by lockewasright on Thu May 15, 2008 at 11:23:01 AM EST
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Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (none / 0)

Two thoughts:

1.) Why do we assume that Clinton can get all of Obama's voters, but that he'll have such a horrible time getting hers?  Such an assumption (which is played out CONSTANTLY in defense of her electability versus his) needs to be better grounded in logic.

2.) The numbers in exit polls "Who will you vote for if..." questions are right, but aren't reflective of the current situation.  For Clinton to overcome Obama's lead, she'd probably have to override the will of the people, as expressed through pledged delegates, with the superdelegates.  If that happened, I guarantee you that that Obama supporters' number would rise significantly before, as I expect the Clinton supporters' number to do, it would fall back to Earth.


Torture me once, shame on you; torture me and get away with it, shame on us all.
by freedom78 on Thu May 15, 2008 at 11:28:05 AM EST

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (none / 0)

I don't think it's difficult at all to imagine how a female candidate for the presidency might emerge who taps into a general wellspring of good will for the idea that a woman should be president (the way Obama, clearly, has tapped into something similar with respect to African Americans).

Here's the problem.  Hillary Clinton arrived with a history.  No reasonable person can dispute that Bill Clinton is a polarizing figure in American politics (and even within the Democratic party there are people who run hot and cold).  There is a strangeness to the whole idea of "his" and "her" presidential terms, dynastic successions, and so on.

The people who back Hillary Clinton for president, and are most invested in the importance of her making history, let's face it, are also those who thought that Bill Clinton was a fantastic president, the dynasty issue was no big deal, etc. (and I won't even mention the impeachment and a progressive critique of the BC years which, by now, almost everyone knows).

It's this conjoining of issues which prevented some general wellspring of good will from developing.  And while I'm not surprised many Clinton supporters have difficult appreciating this (what does this require but acknowledging that people can have politics and sympathies which you don't share), spend just a little time thinking about it and it's obvious.

I wish there were some way we could run the general with both candidates and then pick the winner of that contest.  Hillary Clinton was always going to have a difficult time getting past the 50% mark (and not simply for reasons of sexism, Bill Clinton never passed the halfway mark, he won both times in fluky three-way races).

Last fall, before the primary season shifted into high gear, I called Clinton the "Florida" candidate, because her chances in the general, to me, seemed to turn on whether she could win that state (and if she could secure the nomination through normal means still suspect that's true).  If every Dem voter in these primaries turns out in November they'll make up perhaps a third of the electorate.  

Fully expect that the first woman president will be a Democrat, but think she'll be an a-lister senator or governor who basically does what Obama and even Bill Clinton did (comes from no where and then energizes the broad electorate, the US just doesn't have a great record of elevating senators who are well-known, or politicians who represent a faction of the party, to the presidency, and Clinton, like it or not, fits both slots, with the additional unique status that she used to be First Lady).


by IncognitoErgoSum on Thu May 15, 2008 at 11:47:17 AM EST

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (2.00 / 1)

There is no disagreement on my part that the media has treated Hillary with contempt, immaturity and triviality. There can be no doubt that is the case. My contention with your piece however is that the media treated all the candidates this way. You may see someone in the media commenting on Hillary's pantsuits, or something to that effect and look at it as something that the only woman candidate has to deal with. That's just ridiculous. Can you tell me how much John Edwards pays for his haircuts? I bet you could. Could you tell me whether or not John Kerry enjoys windsurfing? I bet you could. Can you tell me whether or not Barack wears a flag pin?

My point here is that as I read this diary, I don't come to the conclusion that the media is sexist against Hillary, I come to the conclusion that you think Hillary should be treated differently, read better, than everyone else. The media is in a sorry state, I would agree, but they are most definitely equal opportunity offenders. Have they told other cnadidates that there time is up, that they should drop it of the race? Ask Mike Huckabee or John Edwards or Dennis Kucinich. Politics and political reporting are superficial in their nature, for you to expect that Hillary would be treated differently than anyone else shows that it is you and not the media who hold Hillary to a different standard.

Finally I have to say, while there is an argument to be made that Obama's coalition of supporters can't win the GE without  the rank and file Dems that support Hillary it is equally worth mentioning that rank and file Dems have been unable to win elections, without either a strong 3rd party participation (Perot in '92) or the advantage of incumbency. THe rank and file Dems need to be greatly expanded for it to be a formidable voting constituency. In short, Hillary's coalition can't win without Obama's either. Don't forget that.


by AHunch on Thu May 15, 2008 at 11:55:47 AM EST

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (2.00 / 1)

You make excellent points.  The media in America is shameful.  It's hard to believe it passes for news in the minds of some people.

For example, if you want the truth about this primary, listen to BBC or CBC.  There, you'll get the unvarnished truth.  But the news here is not news at all, it's a profit machine, with no conscience, no devotion to truth or even relevance.  Very, very sad.  


"It's time to pass the baton to the next generation." Ken Jacobson, WA state senator.
by tibbs on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:14:57 PM EST
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Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (none / 0)

I don't think there's an argument about sexism in this race, btw, which couldn't be made about race if one did some simple substitution of words.  Eg., many Democratic voters won't turn out for Obama in November because of sexism.  If Clinton gets the nod (especially since her prospects for doing this depend upon things like superdelegates), we know many African Americans would conclude Dems took it away from Obama because they thought he was a "little to black" to be the nominee.

Here's my challenge (and I'm curious if people disagree).  I don't think these sentiments are showing up in the blogosphere.  It's not a problem of My DD--you'll find the same phenomenon on Daily Kos, Talking Points Memo, really across the board.  With some notable exceptions, this is not the medium of choice for African Americans who support the Democratic party (whom, remember, have cast 20% of the votes in this contest, are among the most loyal of Democratic constituencies).

And rather than get on a soap box, let me suggest that we're missing some important voices.  I'm a white guy in his early 40s who gets most of his impressions about the vox populi from forums like this one.  I have a few black friends, of different ages, we've discussed the election, and, well, call it a hunch--there is a range of opinion out there which is just not showing up here.  It's certainly not my (or anyone else's) place to tell you what it is, because it's not one thing, but it's nearly absent.

And, well, that's curious.  Just wonder if others have a similar impression.


by IncognitoErgoSum on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:04:38 PM EST

sweetie, sexism is passe (2.00 / 1)

and that's how the media treats the issue. maybe the likes of paris hilton has made it ok to be sexist again. i'm not sure. but hillary is no paris hilton, yet most media pundits and bloggers has treated her equally. and worse in some instances. i have been so thoroughly disgusted. or maybe the pundits and the bloggers felt so good to vote for a minority that it made it ok to be sexist. this is sort of like the carbon tax. cut your pollution in one area (racism), get credit in another (sexism).

people keep telling me that i still should vote for obama anyway in the general if he is the nominee, for the good of the party and country. i would rather sit at home or write hillary in. i do not want to be part of this mysoginist cuddle fest that the media and the obama campaign/supporters have perpetuated. i do not stand for it, condone it nor will i support this process come november. i think that's equally as important as voting against mccain.


by darwinism on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:19:17 PM EST

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (none / 0)

Sex and race have nothing to do with making an intelligent political decision. Voters who do not make intelligent decisions contribute to the downward slide of the United States. And that's a fact. (Through my profession, it's become clear to me that the US can perhaps lose its competitive edge to European nations and rapidly developing nations such as China, India, and Brazil. Uninformed citizens might lack knowledge of what is really going on in this regard.)


by applecrispbetty on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:23:24 PM EST

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (none / 0)

Although I agree that Clinton has been mistreated at points during the nomination battle (as have Obama, Edwards, etc.), I don't believe that her media treatment during the end game has been sexist.  Anybody other than a Clinton would have been forced by party leaders to drop out weeks ago, when it was apparent from the math, the respective warchests, number of volunteers, etc. who would be the nominee.  But, until IN and NC she was treated as being virtually equal with Obama in terms of the likelihood that she would win.  The media even focused on Wright 24/7 in preparation for the "Obama campaign in shambles" narrative that would be rolled out after those results.  When an upset failed to materialize, even they could no longer perpetuate the idea that there was significant doubt about the nominee.  It may be a hard truth, but it is what it is.


by rfahey22 on Thu May 15, 2008 at 12:35:09 PM EST

Re: Why Sexism May Have Cost the Dems the WH. (none / 0)

The forced child birth movement thanks you for your vote.


by msbatxnyc on Thu May 15, 2008 at 02:05:07 PM EST


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