Jimmy Carter Made Me Cry

My family's Passover dinners suffered a few heavy arguments over the weekend. Nothing simple, like Gefilte etiquette or spurrious afikomen claims... just the typical Israeli/Palestinian conflict argument likely going on all over the world at similar dinners.

Passover being a holiday celebrating liberation -- and celebrating righteous action -- and celebrating ends justifying the means -- and so on... it's bound to come up.

My parents, annual visitors to Jerusalem and super hawking Israel supporters, still maintain some of their former liberal hearts. They feel compassion amidst the clear rage over the school bombing earlier this spring. Promising.

I'm on the other side; mildly hawkish, but unsure how Israel survives maintaining an occupational army. Also, unsure how Israel survives with the hole in the soul that comes from being an occupational army, no matter how righteous the cause or perilous the danger.

Carter came up. The parents were appalled he'd meet with Hamas. I asked how appalled they were that he met with Sadat. It was the "Obama would sit down with terrorists" argument all over again that they keep having with me. We avoided it this weekend. They're die-hard Clintonites but I think the reality of an Obama nod is sinking in. Still, they get pretty Lieberman over matters of Israel.

"What if this is what it takes, though?" I'd ask. Hamas is a political force among the Palestinians, they're no future without including them -- just as (they hate the analogy) Hagganah and Irgun had come together and no, the Irgun were freedom fighters, not baby-murdering terrorists, I get that, but there's a point in that anyway.

The response was that Hamas can't be trusted, or believed, Carter is several yiddish words, a few possibly made up, none nice. Although my mom at least admitted that what's going on now hasn't worked and that something new was concievable, if repugnant.

ANYWAY...

Just got an email from my Dad, forwarding the Yahoo News story:
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20080421/ap_o n_re_mi_ea/syria_hamas_israel;_ylt=Akn.. RqH7MKXLY5PhMdL2u.s0NUE

... about Hamas offering truce -- land for peace -- through Carter and his meeting. My dad's comment "Unlikely. But you're right. I thought the same thing about Sadat."

Fact is, I do doubt this will lead to anything. It'll likely fall apart before day's end. And yeah, I remember having hope during the Bill, Barak (Ehud) and Arafat camp David meet in 00. That couldn't have crashed harder. If I remember correctly, it was a Passover bombing that fully tipped the scales away from peace. But the 8 years since have been pretty bad. It's a new game board. New opportunities to have hopes crushed. But for the moment, I let myself get a little verclempt. Why not. It's a holiday.


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Nice diary (2.00 / 1)

Even a sign of Hamas turning towards an acknowledgement of Israel's right ot exist is a joyful sign.


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by Student Guy on Mon Apr 21, 2008 at 01:47:25 PM EST

Chag Sameach, Lettuce! (2.00 / 1)

My family has an unspoken agreement not to discuss Israel, ever since my father (who converted to Judaism) snapped at my mother (who was born and raised Conservative) for insisting that she wanted to start making an annual donation to JDF.  That got ugly really fast--although they did finally compromise by donating to Magen David Adom.

Dad just doesn't get that Mom and I really do feel a strong emotional connection to Israel, it's not just something we say because we're Jewish.  I often forget he converted, but whenever he talks about Israel, it shows.  So although Mom and I sometimes talk about Israel, we only do it when Dad isn't around, and even then in hushed voices.  (We only got up the nerve to see "Munich" because Dad was safely out of town for the weekend.)

There can be no peace without negotiating with Hamas, much as I wish that weren't true.  But, as it stands, I'm hopeful that everything will come right in the end...or, as we sing in the "Adir Hu," bimheirah biyameinu bikarov!  Speedily, in our days soon to come!

(One little note though--I never saw Pesach as being about ends justifying means.  I'm curious where you got that impression from.)


Wouldn't it be nice if there were no rhetorical questions?
by Elsinora on Mon Apr 21, 2008 at 01:55:51 PM EST

Re: Chag Sameach, Lettuce! (2.00 / 1)

The Israeli's freedom came at the death of the Egyptian first born children. Were I to film "The 10 Commandments" I'd totally make the Israelite exodus one of sad contemplation.


Fight the Smears!
by Lettuce on Mon Apr 21, 2008 at 02:12:07 PM EST
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Re: Chag Sameach, Lettuce! (none / 0)

And moses did - he reminded the hebrews to not celebrate the crossing of the reed w/o recognizing that many egyptians died during their pursuit of the hebrews.

The fact that Passover is a holiday in which Jews discuss oppression in current times, incl the right and wrongs or 'wishing to get better' in Israel today is a point of great pride within myself.


by oaktownchicken on Mon Apr 21, 2008 at 02:43:04 PM EST
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So, I take it your family doesn't... (none / 0)

do the "remove thirteen drops of wine" section of the haggadah?


Wouldn't it be nice if there were no rhetorical questions?
by Elsinora on Mon Apr 21, 2008 at 03:15:01 PM EST
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Good diary, thanks for the personal insight (2.00 / 1)

a question--is the Hamas position on "land for peace" a new one, or one that was already a precondition for recognizing Israel?

I think Jimmy Carter did us all a great service to continue working for peace.


by 4justice on Mon Apr 21, 2008 at 01:58:20 PM EST

Re: Jimmy Carter Made Me Cry (2.00 / 2)

A conservative friend of mine does a good Bill Clinton impression where he says, "What we need over there is lasting peace, I negotiated lasting peace five times."

What people need to be made to understand is our current policies aren't working which is why Barack Obama is right on foreign policy. The Cuba policy has failed for 40 years to do anything but make life harder on the Cuban people, the current stalemate between Israel and Palestine fails when they lob missiles at each other which causes both sides to claim victimhood, the hard line against Iran not only is failing but caused the downfall of the moderates that were working with us after 9/11 and the rise of Ahmadinejad.

It's the whole definition of insanity argument when people argue that not only do we need to not change strategy but we need to adopt an even harder line for success. The whole idea that America meeting with leaders we don't like is a propaganda victory for them is laughable on it's face. They already get a propaganda victory when we refuse to meet with them because they end up looking reasonable and we look condescending.


Proudly joining the legions of people and states that don't matter on May 20th.
by Obama Independent on Mon Apr 21, 2008 at 02:01:49 PM EST

thanks for hopeful diary (none / 0)


the time to rise has been engaged.
by catchaz on Mon Apr 21, 2008 at 02:15:22 PM EST

Re: thanks for hopeful diary (none / 0)

Thanks! And great REM lyric.


Fight the Smears!
by Lettuce on Mon Apr 21, 2008 at 02:37:24 PM EST
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Re: Jimmy Carter Made Me Cry (none / 0)

Thanks for a great diary, and bringing back some memories of seders past with all of the back and forth about this (my dad is gone now).  Sharing your verclempt.  Happy Pesach.


by mady on Mon Apr 21, 2008 at 02:29:03 PM EST

Re: Jimmy Carter Made Me Cry (none / 0)

I shared your hope in 2000 and we were pretty close.  The problem was not with Clinton whose team was masterful in Israel but with Bush who decided that all things Clinton were bad.  Now that we are just about done with our 8 year Bush nightmare, perhaps we can return to realistic negotiations and move Israel/Palestine to where Ireland/Northern Ireland is today.  

I remain hopeful.


by zadura on Mon Apr 21, 2008 at 02:30:22 PM EST

Re: Jimmy Carter Made Me Cry (none / 0)

I'll put blame squarely on Arafat on this. By all accounts they'll never have a better national atmosphere and opportunity. If it wasn't perfect, it wasn't what there is now.

I was so proud to have Clinton as president. I thought it would be the thing that ended Bush's (or whoever got the GOP nod, I don't think it was decided yet) chances. It's amazing how far far away we are from that time. I suppose to neocons it was our naievity, being suckered in as the terrorists waited. I rather think they'd have come either way, but we gave them a more receptive audience.


Fight the Smears!
by Lettuce on Mon Apr 21, 2008 at 02:40:58 PM EST
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Re: Jimmy Carter Made Me Cry (none / 0)

"I blame Arafat..."

Everybody knew what Arafat was.  He was massively imperfect and spoke out both sides of his mouth.  The problem was that Clinton's team got him to the finish line with momentum to push him over.  

Then September/October 2000, troubles began to brew.

Then Bush's team declared that it would not insert itself into the international affairs.

So 8 years later and many thousand deaths later, here we are.


by zadura on Mon Apr 21, 2008 at 03:11:03 PM EST
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Re: Jimmy Carter Made Me Cry (none / 0)

Carter was/is vilified for working toward Peace...

"One way or another, this darkness got to give"

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by nogo war on Mon Apr 21, 2008 at 02:38:14 PM EST

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Great diary!

I come from an Arab-American family, and really appreciate your sentiment.

I know that the only way to achieve peace is compromise, and that means the Palestinians need to lay down their arms. I wish that civil disobedience and non-violent protest and organizing would take off in the West Bank, but for some reason it hasn't.

Palestine needs an MLK or Ghandi to start leading people peacefully.


John McCain: Four More Years of Failure.
by dannybauder on Mon Apr 21, 2008 at 03:10:47 PM EST

I knew Jimmy'd get something (none / 0)

I was incredibly disappointed that Obama criticized Carter for using his own philosophy of talking to the enemy.  He's so afraid of losing the Jewish vote that he's a little more hawkish than his nature would normally warrant.

I'd like to point out that Carter was widely criticized for doing this, and yet here he is coming up with results.

Had Obama embraced the mission, it would have been big points for his diplomacy initiatives.  Best thing he can do now is say, "Wow, I was wrong, I guess I need to listen to myself sometimes."

In any case, this isn't going to be an easy process.  The last time they made true progress, Yitshak Rabin was murdered by one of his own people.


In this avalanche, the pebbles get to vote.
by Dracomicron on Mon Apr 21, 2008 at 03:34:08 PM EST

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"If I remember correctly, it was a Passover bombing that fully tipped the scales away from peace."

No, what bombed these negotiations is that Israel, represented by Ehud Barak, had no intention of settling the conflict by providing the Palestinians with a sovereign independent state on the West Bank and Gaza. Camp David was a ruse. Israelis entered stating, "settlements are off the table." How can there be a Palestinian state amidst 150 Israeli villages, towns, and cities since created on the West Bank alone? Clinton knew that, and so did Barak, who admitted to the ruse several years later, on the Charlie Rose Show (January 25, 2005). Not even his own party, Labor, would have voted to remove EVEN ONE SETTLEMENT, he said. Nothing was also to be in writing. Why? The generous offer hoax followed and with the help of Dennis Ross and Clinton, Arafat was blamed for the failure.

For historical sake, it is now evident that Bill Clinton did more to undermine a peace settlement between the Israelis and Palestinians than any other president. During his reign of the 90s, settlements on the West Bank and Gaza DOUBLED as did the rate of settlement. Now we have this situation where the are close to a half million Israelis living an Apartheid life in the West Bank and no Israeli leader willing to ask them to leave.


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by shergald on Mon Apr 21, 2008 at 05:27:52 PM EST

Israel was a MISTAKE!!! (none / 0)

Two wrongs dont make a right and thats not gonna change. Ignoring the objections of the Arabs when Israel re-established was arrogant. The Zionist that pushed for the creation Israel were wrong. Now Jews have to lie endlessly to keep the state viable in public opinion and lie to themselves to alleviate the guilt. The truth will prevail it always does.


by edtastic on Mon Apr 21, 2008 at 07:26:00 PM EST


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