My family's Passover dinners suffered a few heavy arguments over the weekend. Nothing simple, like Gefilte etiquette or spurrious afikomen claims... just the typical Israeli/Palestinian conflict argument likely going on all over the world at similar dinners.
Passover being a holiday celebrating liberation -- and celebrating righteous action -- and celebrating ends justifying the means -- and so on... it's bound to come up.
My parents, annual visitors to Jerusalem and super hawking Israel supporters, still maintain some of their former liberal hearts. They feel compassion amidst the clear rage over the school bombing earlier this spring. Promising.
I'm on the other side; mildly hawkish, but unsure how Israel survives maintaining an occupational army. Also, unsure how Israel survives with the hole in the soul that comes from being an occupational army, no matter how righteous the cause or perilous the danger.
Carter came up. The parents were appalled he'd meet with Hamas. I asked how appalled they were that he met with Sadat. It was the "Obama would sit down with terrorists" argument all over again that they keep having with me. We avoided it this weekend. They're die-hard Clintonites but I think the reality of an Obama nod is sinking in. Still, they get pretty Lieberman over matters of Israel.
"What if this is what it takes, though?" I'd ask. Hamas is a political force among the Palestinians, they're no future without including them -- just as (they hate the analogy) Hagganah and Irgun had come together and no, the Irgun were freedom fighters, not baby-murdering terrorists, I get that, but there's a point in that anyway.
The response was that Hamas can't be trusted, or believed, Carter is several yiddish words, a few possibly made up, none nice. Although my mom at least admitted that what's going on now hasn't worked and that something new was concievable, if repugnant.
ANYWAY...
Just got an email from my Dad, forwarding the Yahoo News story:
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20080421/ap_o
n_re_mi_ea/syria_hamas_israel;_ylt=Akn..
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... about Hamas offering truce -- land for peace -- through Carter and his meeting. My dad's comment "Unlikely. But you're right. I thought the same thing about Sadat."
Fact is, I do doubt this will lead to anything. It'll likely fall apart before day's end. And yeah, I remember having hope during the Bill, Barak (Ehud) and Arafat camp David meet in 00. That couldn't have crashed harder. If I remember correctly, it was a Passover bombing that fully tipped the scales away from peace. But the 8 years since have been pretty bad. It's a new game board. New opportunities to have hopes crushed. But for the moment, I let myself get a little verclempt. Why not. It's a holiday.
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