I think most prochoice Democratic women when given the chance to vote for mcCain to put the final nail in the coffin of Roe v. Wade will remain loyal Democrats.
I think you're right in many cases, and in no way am I advocating a vote for McCain. But there is a deep and growing anger out here, and the likely result is women will stay home, in sufficient numbers, given we're the majority -- repeat: majority -- to cost democrats the election. Denying it will not help.
But don't you see that a decision to stay home is the same as a vote for McCain, and hence a vote to destroy Roe vs. Wade? Can any of us, as feminists, and mothers, take that chance? My daughter's right to choose is too important to me. I would, and will, vote for any democrat running against McCain, no matter who they are.